Updated: 2/20/08
I am a Female Domme. Lifestyle, not Professional.
First, I am married to My submissive. He is submissive only to Me, which means he is Dominant to everyone else. Do not contact Me if you have a problem with his presense when you and I meet, play or have any other interactions. He and I have only 2 boundaries/groundrules and we NEVER break them. We are very secure in ourselves and in our relationship. If you are also an Alpha male and wish to spend time with Me, know that he will always be close by, or present, until he is comfortable with you and certain of your intentions.
If you are looking to find a Dominant Couple, then make contact and let's see if we have common interests. you would do well to be with Us.
We are attractive, sexy, desirable and sought after. We are successful, intelligent, and stable. We have a reasonable amount of class and sophistication. We are comfortable in a variety of social settings. We know who we are, we like who we are, and we have a solid, secure relationship. We are safe, sane and real.
We are always looking to develop friendship with other Harley enthusiasts.
I am an Officer with a FemDom group in NC. I am very discreet in keeping My vanilla life separate from My kinky life, but within the Lifestyle community, I am very open. I know a lot of people in the lifestyle and if I do not find you to be a good fit for Me, then I could possibly introduce you to others. And certainly the FemDom group is a great way to meet people... ask Me about that if you are interested.
If you hope to be 24/7 with Me, or to spend more than time with Me on occasion, then be prepared to enjoy being around a group of wonderful Dominant Ladies and the subs who serve them. We entertain here in our home with regularity both vanilla parties and kinky parties. We will soon have completed a full dungeon. At that point we will probably entertain even more frequently. So be excited to serve, and prepared to help make those events a success.
I also offer coaching to submissives who are having trouble finding their special One to serve. So if you cannot find your Dominant, and you do not know what to do, or what you are doing wrong, then contact Me for more information about that. you should be prepared for face to face meetings. you should be prepared to step out of your comfort zone. you should be prepared to travel here to spend a weekend to learn basic protocols, how to serve, and tools to build your confidence in the lifestyle.
I am much more interested in getting together than talking through e-mail and chatting. So after a few initial e-mails, be prepared to meet if I choose to meet you. Do NOT waste My time. I get soooo disgusted with those who get off on talking with Me, and who never intend to actually meet Me.
Do not contact Me if you are:
- married or in a long-term relationship in which your significant other thinks you are monogomous.
- opposed to serving Me alongside My 24/7 male submissive
- desperate, clingy, jealous, or needy
- unemployed or lack some form of income
- only looking for kinky sex, or a one-night stand of any kind
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My Ideal Person:
Up-dated: 3/4/08
I am looking for a submissive man or woman who is eager to serve Me/Us. Do you want to submit to Me on an occasional basis? Do you want to surrender all and be My 24/7 live-in slave? Do you want to be the one who spoils and pampers Me? I am looking for each of the three, which one are you? How will you serve Me?
Note to those who wish to see Me on occasion for play: If you think that I am bored and waiting for someone to show up to play with... (laughing hysterically... ahhh, not hardly)... and that you can stroll into town, give Me your do-me list and I'll spend 2-3 hours handling that for you, so you can stroll back out of town... ok, think again. In this situation, being a Professional would almost be easier. If you want occasional meetings with Me, I am totally open to that! But if you want that, and I choose to play with you, then be prepared to compensate Me for My time, energy and effort in some shape, form or fashion. you should think about that prior to contacting Me and include that in your message/request.
A note to the one who actually shows up who wants to spoil Me and will take the time to find out My interests, needs, and the things on My wish list... I will make you a VERY HAPPY man or woman, and you will have a very speccial place in My life!
Please be honest, healthy, intelligent, eager to please, eager to spoil Me, attentive, sane, discreet, attractive and dependable. I greatly appreciate a healthy self-esteem and sense of self-worth (not the same as an inflated ego). I ONLY exchange power with people who have power to give! Be willing to share your thoughts and feelings with Me, brainless yes-men/women BORE Me. you should live within an easy driving distance. you will be trained to please Me, serve Me, and you will follow a specific protocol/etiquette. you would be available for occasional weekend service/fun including travel, so you should be able to afford travel.
Possibility of a long-term collar or ownership.
Since I am VERY Bi, Bi or gay women will get special consideration and the attention they deserve. But ladies, please don't be a man-hater and understand that I have a 24/7 male submissive.
If you want to hear back from Me, when you send your message, please send information... how you wish to serve Me, your kink, your relationship goals, your desires, how often you wish to serve, and anything else you think might be important (more than just a line or two). Do not give Me information about, or a photo of your cock. I do not care about that and I find it totally lacking class and quite offensive.
Winking or putting Me on your hotlist is flattering, but since I hardly ever look at those, it really doesn't do you much good. Send a message, and face pics get first reply.
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