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Pure & simple, devoted patrner wanted>>.Dominant/submissive

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Information:
Gender:   Woman
Birthdate:   January 31, 1958
(52 years old)
Astrological Compatibility
Lives in:   New York, New York, United States
Relocate?:   Prefer not to say
Height:   5 ft 11 in / 180-182 cm
Body Type:   A little extra padding
Smoking:   I'm a non-smoker
Drinking:   I'm a light/social drinker
Drugs:   Prefer not to say
Education:   Associate degree (2 years college)
Race:   Caucasian
Sexual Orientation:   Bi-curious
Speaks:   English
Hair Color:   Red
Hair Length :   Long
Eye Color :   Blue
Glasses or Contacts :   None


LifeStyle
Activities Enjoyed:   24/7 (Total Power Exchange); Anal Sex; Asphyxiaphilia (Breath Play); Ass Play; Biting; Blindfolds; Blood; Bondage; Breast/Nipple Torture, Clamps, etc.; Candle Wax; Chains; Chastity Devices; Chinese Balls/Ben Wa Balls/Anal Beads; Cling Film; Cock and Ball Torture, Clamps, etc.; Collar and Lead/Leash; Confinement/Caging; Cupping (Suction of the Skin); Dacryphilia (Arousal from Tears); Defilement, seeing a partner dirty or wet; Depilation/Shaving; Dildos (Handheld & Strap-ons); Discipline; Doctor/Nurse Fetish; Domination; Ears; Electrotorture (EMS TENS units); Exhibitionism/Sex In Public; Feathers; Fire Play; Fisting; Food Play; Hair Pulling; Handcuffs/Shackles; High Heels; Humiliation; Klismaphilia (Douching/Enema); Knife/Needle Play; Lace/Lingerie; Latex; Leather; Making Home "Movies"; Masks; Masochism; Massage; Master/Slave; Masturbation; Mutual Masturbation; Nipples; Oral Fixation; Oral Sex; Pain; Pantyhose/Stockings; Participating in Erotic Photography; Piercings; Pinching; Play Piercing; Podophilia (Foot Fetish); Power Exchange; Rack/Medieval Devices; Retifism (Shoes or Boots); Rimming; Role Playing; Rubber; Sadism; Scent; Sensory Deprivation; Spanking/Paddling; Talking Dirty; Tongue Fetish; Toys; Vibrators; Voyeurism; Whips
I think about ALT lifestyle:   All the time
Role:   Switch
Level of Experience:   More than five years
Dress:   Gothic
Social Orientation :   Liberal
Safe Sex:   Yes
Demeanor:   Assertive

Personal
Body Decorations : Earring(s); Body Piercings
Breast Size: 40 / 90 DD (E, if no DD)
Pubic Hair: Shaved
Marital Status: Single
Have Children: No
Want Children : No
Occupation: Operating Room Nurse
Religion: Spiritual

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52 year old Woman in New York, New York, United States Looking For: Men for active participation

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***WARNING: Any institutions or individuals using this site or any of its associated sites for studies or projects - You DO NOT have permission to use any of my profile or pictures in any form or forum both current and future. If you have or do, it will be considered a violation of my privacy and will be subject to legal ramifications. It is recommended that other members post a similar notice to this or you may copy and paste this one

I do not accept network invitations from strangers. I only accept invites from people I know or that I have had some communication with.

After many years of being a member I find Alt has changed drastically. It is more for the swingers than people interested in BDSM. That is not my interest. IF by chance you see my profile and ARE interested in BDSM please say hello.

I know my profile is long & detailed. Please take the time to read it all & see if we might have similar interests. I'd appreciate it.

I am not looking for a "bedroom Dom"...anyone can be dominant in the bedroom. I seek someone that is Dominant deep within his soul.

** Domination starts in the mind, if you "control" the mind the body comes willingly**

I have such a need to be Dominated, this is not a want, it is a need... pleasurably..not by brute force. Please understand,this is not about sex for me,it's about true submission to another. The sex is just a plus if that happens.

When I feel the connection, I submit every so beautifully....how I love that feeling...how I miss it.

Why are so many afraid of the connection??? Don't we all want that regardless of the connection, play, friends or ltr....it continues to baffle me. Why are so many Doms afraid of a submissive with a brain, one that knows what she wants.

***Intimacy is what is needed for any relationship to evolve & flourish.***


~~~~~I AM DESCRIBED AS DOMINANTLY SUBMISSIVE. IT TAKES A DOMINANT WHO IS VERY SECURE WITH HIMSELF TO HAVE ME OR SHALL I SAY FOR ME TO WANT TO BE HIS~~~~~

As "Dominant" as I say I can be..I am far more submissive with the right Dom, since that is the true me >>> everything just flows so perfectly..it's as if I don't have a Dominant bone in my body.

Some of us must behave dominantly to survive life, our jobs etc...that is the game of life. It can be the strongest that submit the most beautifully..had to say that cause that's me.

I know what I want/need and believe I make it clear in this profile. I enjoy play immensely, but I need a connection with the one who toys with me.I am not looking for occasional times, I would like to find one person I can have it all with. If you & I consider me your submissive then,I am and I want no other,it really is so simple.

me>>>>>>>

I am a devoted masochist submissive, looking for r/t, living in NYC.

I am looking for that… "Special" Dom, one who is patient but...firm with such a strong hearted & strong willed woman.

I want to be Your partner,lover,friend, your toy,your slut & your submissive .With the hope of all this, my mind, body, heart & soul become yours, can you handle it.

I am well worth it, as my heart & soul are into pleasing my one. The words I long to hear...you're MY girl. [if255 1]

My Ideal Person:
UPDATE 1-30-10>>>>

Looking for submissive male for everything. I'm not going to redo my whole profile at this point in time.

I seek a loving Sadistic,honest man. Sounds like a cliche' but if you can read thru the lines please contact me.

One I can give myself to fully . A true Dominant will want it all...a physical & emotional connection. One who can tie me...bind me and much more, to reach that level of ecstasy we are all looking for.

This all seems ever so simple but ever so hard to find. The best things take time, I am looking for an eventual LTR.

Please have a good sense of humor for this sarcastic female who loves to laugh

What I am not interested in are the players of life..please do not waste either of our time

IF YOU ARE EMOTIONALLY UNAVAILABLE DON'T WASTE EITHER OF OUR TIME!!!

IF your wife doesn't get it pass me by
IF you are looking for another for your stable pass me by
IF you are here for the mind fuck only, PLEASE pass me by
IF you are not looking for a devoted sub make SURE you pass me by
IF you are looking for a doormat..don't even wink

For other submissives, if by chance you read my profile, I enjoy switching now... if you love pain I'm your girl.


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