This is the *personal* profile of the writer and Domme, Mistress Magick.
A sensual, firm and loving Mistress, I am seeking a boy (or "girl") who enjoys serving and pleasing me, and who will always work to do his best toward that goal. A vivacious BBW, with curly red hair, I am a Pagan Goddess and caring Queen, who is also interested in Tantric, Taoist and other sacred sexual and energetic practices. I am naturally dominant and sometimes quite demanding, but I also do enjoy teaching those in my service, and I do expect them to learn and grow as they serve me.
* I am interested in a submissive boy for personal and household service and/or foot and body worship. You should be intelligent, respectful, sensual and "real". I do want someone who will at least be a friend as well as a play partner, and a respectful and attentive lover would be even better.
* I am open to finding a possible primary partner, if the chemistry is right. The right partner would be a intelligent submissive or switch, who has the inner strength to hold me during the difficult times, as well as a loving and supportive heart and an intelligent and creative mind with thoughts, dreams and desires of his own.
My subs are generally intelligent, articulate, successful and cultured. They do not need to be rescued, but have a deep need to please and to serve. (I love the rare breed of geek who also has confidence and social skills.) I require a boy or "girl" that I can also be proud of and enjoy showing off. I appreciate their unique skills and talents, and putting them to good use, whether fixing my car or cooking me dinner.
Someone who can serve as an assistant, manservant, maid or lady-in-waiting is especially valued. I would also prefer someone who is also open to accompanying me to events, and in serving me at them. They should understand that their actions in public are always a reflection upon me.
In all cases, I am looking for a continuing D/s relationship that grows and deepens over time.
* If you are interested in a *personal* relationship, you: 1) are willing and able to come to Durham on a regular basis (min. of one night a weekend or 1-2 weekends a month), 2) are not married or otherwise attached, 3) do not smoke or do illegal drugs and 4) are interested in a *dating* D/s relationship, including "vanilla" activities. Obviously we also need to share similar interests and attitudes, and the above are the bare minimum requirements. They are also the ways in which it would differ from an online-only training relationship, which is not the purpose of this profile.
To be clear, things that I enjoy doing with my personal sub are below. If you are not interested in most of these, as described, you should NOT bother writing me.
- Foot worship: Rub lotion on my feet as I check my mail on my laptop; suck my toes for hours, while both of us enjoy getting lost in the sensation. Optional, but fun and a wonderful way to show you off to other Dommes: learn to paint my toenails or perhaps to give me a complete pedicure.
- Body worship: Give me a back rub or full body massage; kiss me all over... including places like my back. You should understand that touching, kissing, etc. my womanhood is a privilege to be earned by pleasing me in other ways, including non-sexual ones, and is NOT a given.
- Intimate service. If you have pleased me well in other ways, and I am delighted with you and your service, I would also enjoy having you as my "sex slave", but always the dedication to my pleasure comes first (no pun intended), and your pleasure is at my discretion.
I love owning my boy's cock, and see it as a tool to be used for my pleasure. As a part of that I sometimes enjoy having it presented as I desire... perhaps decorated with cocks rings or a sheath, or surrounded by a lace garter and stockings. How I like it decorated depends on the boy or "girl". See more about that below.
- Personal service: Freshen my drink, cook me dinner or breakfast, bring me something I need from downstairs, help me with a project, etc.
- Household service (cleaning, helping with laundry, mr. fix-it tasks, etc.) and errands (pick up something from the store on your way to meet me) are occasionally required, and should be done while I am busy with other tasks. They would be part of a larger service-oriented relationship and would NOT be the sole focus of your service.
- Attend me one-on-one and at events : Take me to dinner, a movie/concert/play &/or an event, including kink and vanilla occasions. Open doors, put away or put on my coat, carry bags, fetch a burger off the grill or some food from the buffet while I network, etc. You might also be required to get there early and same me a seat, or something of that nature.
At events, I may wish you to dress as I desire (as I will when you are serving me at home). I also love volunteering my sub to help setup equipment, carry items for another Domme or be a demo model for an instructor that I know and trust. If you are interested in something and I'm not into it, I don't have a problem with arranging for you to try it, as long as I feel comfortable about it in regard to your safety. (If you are interested in alternative spirituality events and rituals and/or events like Ren Faires it is a plus, and I would love to take you, but it not required if they hold no interest to you.)
In addition to the items listed above, I love chastity training and certain types of crossdressing. (Both activities are definitely optional, but can be a true delight for me.)
As far as chastity training, I definitely get off on owning my boy's cock. I see it as my tool, for my pleasure, and it is only to be considered for use when and if I care to do so. I really enjoy the control of being a keyholder (whether only while you are with me, or more long term): the power of the teasing, the denial... and finally, perhaps, allowing a well-earned and ritualized release. And whining is NOT allowed. Understand that the more I enjoy my control over your cock, the more that I am likely to enjoying making use of it.
(You should also know that I find true cuckolds to be completely useless. A sub should be dedicated to my pleasure in whatever ways be can best serve me, and however I might decide to enjoy him. I want a sub who is proud to grow his skills in the many areas in which he can do this. As far as I am concerned, a cuck just wants attention (via humiliation), and he doesn't want to have to put in the work himself.)
I also have a personally fetish for genderbending (more than full transformation). I enjoy seeing the combination of what we see as masculine and what we see as feminine, the epitome of which, at least for me, is the contrast of a hard cock framed by soft lace. 
I greatly enjoy straight or bi, male CDs, including shopping together and helping you dress. However TGs generally do not work out. Being with someone who honestly doesn't want to have a cock doesn't work for me, except as a girlfriend ... shopping, playing dress up and the like.
Please note that I am seeking an ongoing D/s relationship, and am not into giving pain, except in very, very rare cases, and then only when I see the true need for it in the submissive. If you are looking for a tie-me-up-and-flog-me Top or simply to be done in any way shape or form, I am not the Mistress that you are looking for.
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SEEKING an unmarried straight or bi boy, devoted to my pleasure and service. Fetch me a drink, dry me off as I get out of the bath, massage me from head to toe with oil, kiss my feet, suck my toes and, if I allow it, pleasure me as I desire. And don't forget breakfast in the morning.
If you are interested in me:
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- You need to mail me first. Make sure to attach your profile and to specifically address the ways in which you do or do not fit my needs. Don't just wink or invite me to your network. If you are serious, be direct. If you aren't serious, don't waste my time.
- Tell me something about yourself and why you are interested. Give me a reason to write back. (Note: reasons I may NOT write back include two-sentence e-mails, unsolicited explicit pics, and letters from guys who are only looking for sex or only looking for chats, e-mail and/or photo exchange.)
- If I ask you a question, answer it. Promptly.
- Be ready and willing to take me to dinner, or to meet at a public event or venue, for our first meeting. I don't meet the first time in private, and if your need to discretion is that great, then I am not interested, for more than one reason.
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My Ideal Person:
I'm putting all my "seeking" information in the introduction text so that it will be included when I attach my profile to an e-mail.
I would like to acknowledge substudent999 as my LD slave and online assistant. He is doing a wonderful job, and I am very proud of him. 
One of his duties is to assist me in screening new applicants. Do not be surprised if I ask him to respond to you once we start corresponding off of alt, and, if so, please remember to treat him with the same level of respect as you would give me.
Also, if you would like to know more about what I expect or desire in a submissive, he is a good one to ask.
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