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xanderfi  
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Last Visit: More than 3 months
Member Since: June 28, 2004

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Information:
Gender:   Woman
Birthdate:   December 4, 1963
(46 years old)
Astrological Compatibility
Lives in:   Casper, Wyoming, United States
Relocate?:   No
Height:   5 ft 5 in / 165-167 cm
Body Type:   Average
Smoking:   I'm a non-smoker
Drinking:   I'm a light/social drinker
Drugs:   I don't use drugs
Education:   PhD/MD/Post doctorate
Race:   Caucasian
Sexual Orientation:   Straight
Speaks:   English
Hair Color:   Blonde
Hair Length :   Short
Eye Color :   Blue
Glasses or Contacts :   None


LifeStyle
Activities Enjoyed:   Age Play; Anal Sex; Asphyxiaphilia (Breath Play); Ass Play; Biting; Blindfolds; Bondage; Breast/Nipple Torture, Clamps, etc.; Candle Wax; Chains; Chinese Balls/Ben Wa Balls/Anal Beads; Collar and Lead/Leash; Cupping (Suction of the Skin); Depilation/Shaving; Dildos (Handheld & Strap-ons); Discipline; Domination; Ears; Electrotorture (EMS TENS units); Exhibitionism/Sex In Public; Feathers; Fire Play; Fisting; Food Play; Hair Pulling; Handcuffs/Shackles; High Heels; Humiliation; Klismaphilia (Douching/Enema); Lace/Lingerie; Latex; Leather; Making Home "Movies"; Masochism; Massage; Master/Slave; Masturbation; Mutual Masturbation; Nipples; Oral Fixation; Oral Sex; Pain; Participating in Erotic Photography; Piercings; Pinching; Podophilia (Foot Fetish); Power Exchange; Rack/Medieval Devices; Rimming; Role Playing; Sadism; Sensory Deprivation; Sex During Menstruation; Spanking/Paddling; Talking Dirty; Tongue Fetish; Toys; Urolagnia (Water Sports/Urine); Vibrators; Voyeurism; Whips
I think about ALT lifestyle:   Sometimes
Role:   Submissive
Level of Experience:   Prefer not to say
Dress:   Casual
Social Orientation :   Prefer not to say
Safe Sex:   Yes
Demeanor:   Average

Personal
Breast Size: Prefer not to say
Pubic Hair: Prefer not to say
Marital Status: Divorced
Have Children: Yes. We live together.
Want Children : Happy with what I have
Religion: Christian

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46 year old Woman in Casper, Wyoming, United States Looking For: Men for active participation

Profile for xanderfi
I've known for years that I'm a sub though I often appear otherwise. I'm adventurous and playful but I'm not looking for a series of one night stands. I don't know what its like for you Doms, but doing things of a submissive nature is comforting while still being an incredible turn on. I feel I respond better to praise and positive reinforcement (with the threat of some real punishment if I don't behave) than I would to "Yo Bitch, suck my cock!" or being forced physically to do something. Now I'm not saying I don't like giving oral, I do, ALOT, and I'm not saying I don't like pain, I do.. not sure how much, but I know I do. Right now I'm a work in progress. I had a bit of health trouble which is finally clearing up so I'm taking advantage of the good feelings to better myself, my health and my looks. [if255 1]

My Ideal Person:
I'm completely unsure of what I want other than someone who is dominant yet caring. I know I DON'T want.. someone with poor grammar, someone on drugs, someone who is an Ass in Dom's clothing, or an abuser, been there, done that, threw the tshirt away after i tore it into little bitty pieces. I need someone who can be mentally stimulating outside of the scene, someone who cherishes me and who I respect and adore. I realize it takes time to develop such a relationship and I'll probably kiss a few frogs. But said frogs, had better be able to take no for an answer. While I am a submissive, I'm not submissive to just anyone.


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