I am bisexual and somewhat assertive by nature, but do enjoy my time in sub-space with the right Dom/Switch if I can trust Him. I work a lot and am not available often, but would make time for the right person.
Trust is HUGE with me, and I do not tolerate liars what-so-ever. Trust is built on truth, not lies. You cannot have a fulfilling BDSM relationship without mutual trust and respect.
I also like to switch. I am literally a true switch, not just someone who is confused. I have been in this lifestyle for many years and know exactly who/what I am. I play safe, sane, and consensual. I will respect you and safe words. I am submissive with certain men and dominant with other men and women. I am not at all interested in a female top.
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My Ideal Person:
I am just exploring some possibilities and wanting to meet new people (male and female). I would liek to meet a bisexual/gay female (vanilla or other). However, it would also be nice to find a single Dom/Switch to play with regularly in a LTR since I am rather choosy about who tops me. I am not looking for a 24/7 BDSM relationship - I do have other interests in life. I just like to play and occasionally truly NEED a Dom to take over.
My former Dom did not understand how the M/s relationship works. I am looking for someone who does. He was an abuser, not a master, and lied/betrayed my trust. I need someone who understands, and who is more mature. I need someone more experienced who also knows how to protect and nurture their sub as well inflict pain. I need someone who will listen and respect me. So, I am not looking for a sadist, but a true Dom. Yes, there is a difference!
If you are in a relationship, you MUST BE OPEN. I am not a liar, sneaker, or cheater. I require full disclosure and will reciprocate in return. If you lie to your significant other, you will lie to me.
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