Gather 'round, Boys, while I tell you a tale.
There once was a young woman in Iowa, and like all young women she was driven by an intense curiosity of the world around her. Life, the universe, and everything intrigued her, but nothing aroused her interest as much as the men she met. She flirted, she teased, and she loved them but after many years she discovered that the majority of men she had met preferred vanilla sex and were hesitant to step away from their comfortable roles as master of the bedroom. This frustrated the young woman – she wanted so much more than vanilla sex, and did not understand why she could not be master of the bedroom (at least once in a while). Alas, she stumbled from relationship to relationship until, still driven by an insatiable curiosity and an Internet account, she stumbled into the BDSM world. Suddenly there were others who understood her frustration, and while this pleased her she was overwhelmed by the vast complexity of the world she now desired.
Was she a sub? Was she a Domme? What did she truly enjoy in the bedroom? These questions taunted her, and gathering her courage the young woman ventured forth in search of answers. A handful of men did she meet, and from each of them she learned something new about herself.
She liked being bound in ropes, handcuffs and plastic wrap.
She liked wearing blindfolds, hoods and gags.
She liked dildos, anal toys, and anything that vibrated.
She liked being master of the bedroom (once in a while).
Sadly, though the young woman could heartily embrace the world of Bondage, she could not embrace the worlds of Domination or Sadomasochism for herself. The use of pain, disparaging remarks and enforced behavior left her cold and felt too much like abuse, and so she left these worlds for others to conquer.
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About myself then. I'm short, brunette/silver, and comfortably plump. I carry the weight well, but if a few extra pounds isn't your preference please do not send offers. I am a computer programmer, a gamer, and a want-to-be writer. I am also financially independent, and enjoy my single lifestyle. I play because I want to, because I like to, and because life is too short not to enjoy every moment you can, when you can.
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My Ideal Person:
My play-partner should be single/divorced, enjoy intelligent conversation and yet know how to be completely silly when the occasion allows. He should enjoy tying a woman up and teasing her to climax, or being tied up and teased until his toes curl.
I can do discrete, but will not hide a relationship. I am not interested in one night stands, but could be talked into a string of pleasant interludes without the long term relationship. And, I like a lot of kinky sexual activities but my definition of "casual" sex does not include intercourse.
Drug and disease free a must.
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