I'm a switch, but much more of a top than a bottom, and I'm quite well-versed in a wide range of SM skills and arts. I can play hard, or I can play so softly that you're begging for more. But most of all, I play with utter delight, a sense of adventure, and childlike glee. This is fun!
I will flog you until you're sure your skin is on fire, run my fingernails oh so gently over your back, then slam you up against the cross, lean in very close so you can feel my breath on your neck, then growl into your ear, "tell me a joke." A bad pun is perfectly acceptable. I love smartassed masochists, and smartassed sadists are quite lovely too.
On the other hand, I'm not much into power games. Being a domme doesn't interest me, and I'm so violently non-submissive that it will make your head spin. If you're looking for mistress, ma'am, or the perfect slave girl, move on to the next ad... there's nothing to see here.
I'm perfectly comfortable in public dungeons, and I've been in and out of the leather community for a decade and a half.
I'm actively poly, and I have an interesting collection of lovers and playpartners in my life already. While I'm certainly not opposed to meeting more, I'm really looking for the special one-- the one I can come home to, snuggle up with, and then spend half the night talking and giggling with. Yes, I'm a silly romantic.
Outside the dungeon, I'm a professional geek, a poker player, a photographer, a lover of theater, and lots of other things. I gave up television a few decades ago and I don't miss it one bit, and I'm almost completely pop culture illiterate. I have no idea who won the last superbowl, but isn't that the game with the really tall guys and the big orange ball?
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My Ideal Person:
You can meet me in the middle as an equal, and you have something of interest to bring to the relationship. Your IQ is well above room temperature, and you can converse intelligently about a wide variety of topics. You're not looking for a Barbie to your Ken, but someone who challenges you intellectually. If you like the idea of playing on Saturday night until the dungeon closes, then spending Sunday morning in bed with the NYT crossword puzzle, then I might already be in love.
You may be relatively new to BDSM, or you may be an experienced player, but you come to it with a sense of adventure and playfulness.
This is very important: you aren't cheating on anyone, and you aren't looking for a discreet (or worse, discrete) encounter. Also, please manage to form coherent sentences and spell most of your words correctly. I'll admit that I'm a snob about such things.
Drop me a note and let me know why I might find you interesting. Winking at me doesn't work very well.
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