Ahhh the illusive search for what we both need and want. How do we find that person that both satisfies desires and needs and still inspires us. I have always thought the best place to start is knowing one self, cause how can you expect to answer the needs and desires of another if you cant recognize your own. I am not looking for a casual sexual play toy. Nor am I looking for the cliché slave. I am looking for a partner who both embraces and accepts the submissive elements of their being. One who wants a partner that answers those desires and needs thru firm direction, expectations and consequences. But all the while they understand that the underlying trust and love always means that there is respect of the persons being. They are looking for a partner who understands their need to give up control but doesnt desire to break them, but respects and celebrates their individuality.
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My Ideal Person:
I am looking for a person who has the strength of character to fit into my vanilla world and yet in the private world answers my need to be in control. A person who respects that private life is just that and short of a few associates knowing there is no need for anyone else to know. A person who keeps himself informed of the world around them and is willing to discuss and debate those things. Who can carry a conversation but at the same time eager to please and learn the desires of their partner. Who learns to anticipate and meet my needs And since we all know that our vanilla lives affect our other lifestyle choices it is important to understand that I am a successful professional executive. My job is demanding involves some travel and often-long hours. So it is crucial that the person who becomes part of my life is secure enough to not be jealous of outside demands.
If this sounds interesting drop me a line. We can explore from there.
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