Ok let's face it, I'm submissive and you're dominant! (If you are switch, curious, submissive - like me.. don't waste my time.) I'm submissive who is seeking friendship to build into something more.
No, I'm not desperate. I can get a date anytime. I don't think about it 24/7 but when I get those romantic feelings my desires defaults to a Male Dominant/Female Submissive Role.
I tried to live a 'vanilla' lifestyle but that's like trying to take the "Gay" out of a Gay Person!
What I seek is an un-attached man or loving couple who knows how to cherish, love and respect a submissive and is interested in showing the "newbie" sub "the ropes" so to speak. I've been in the scene for many years, but hiding behind the mask of a Domme.
I really want to experience and share my submissive side with a man who understands.
I believe in safe-words, I believe in communications, I believe that bdsm and D/s relationships can be created within a relationship based on love and respect.
BDSM is not about being in an abusive relationship. BDSM and D/s relationships derived from anger or from any other form of control (to cover up for the lack of self-control) is not for me. I'm not into pain for pain's sake.
I see submission as a virtue of strength. A female submissive is not a "door mat." If that is what you want, don't waste my time!
I am a real submissive who does not easily give up her control. A Master, to me must earn my trust before I surrender my "Gift of Submission."
I respond very well to a Dominant Man who is sensitive to my needs. I desire to please and serve my Master, at the same time I seek out the Master who listens, desires to care for and take consideration of my needs. I need patience from my partner. I am a delicate flower whom in time under your Masterful tutiledge will blossom into a ruby red rose!
I want to deeply connect with my partner to share those creative ideas of sexuality and sensuality through the "gift of surrendering."
I want more than just a dominant/submissive relationship. What I want is a friendship, a regular vanilla relationship a partner whom I can just communicate to and of course we are both kinky whom can share our sexual desires with each other. I want a partner in life, to share hobbies, explore places, share in life experiences. I want to hold hands, snuggle and kiss, go out, take in a trip, a movie, walk in the park, work out together, grow old together.....etc... Am I demanding... hell yes! I know what I want!
Hey sex is the easy part. I want more than that and i know that takes time. What is the that I am speaking about? The emotional connection that is developed between two people. That is what I want and that is what had been missing in previous relationships (vanilla or kinky). I want both.
I want to let all my guards down. I don't want to top from the bottom. I just want to be, and feel the power and the passion of my dominant man as he appreciates his sexy submissive...ME!
I hope to attract my boyfriend, my lover, my life mate partner. I know that this place attracts alot of players, curosity seekers, and swingers, which I am not.
I love to be cherished, desired, placed on display, bound, plugged, clamped, nude in your Mastering presence, told that I am beautiful as I am servicing your manly needs, to serve you as you please.
I am very private about this. I do not wear this part of me on my sleeve. I am not desperate for I can get dates anytime. I am just unique.
I am your equal, your lady, your wife or your girlfriend by day and as the evening and weekends arrive I become your desirable slut/sub.
I do not want to "rush" into playing without developing an emotional connection first, through dating, getting to know each other as friends and just letting intimacy develop from there.
I've done all the playing I would ever want to. I seek a one on one long term relationship. Starting off as friends is very important to me. Being able to communicate our hopes, wishes, dreams, desires & fears are just as equally vital to any relationship be it friend, romantic or long term lover/lifemate.
I love everyday regular things, movies, walking, hiking, working out, volunteering, community activities, museums, history, great conversations, science-fiction conventions, socializing & dining.
I am a monogamistic woman who sees & feels the freedom within monogamy. I am spiritually open leaning towards paganism/celtic beliefs. I desire a monogamistic Dominant. Where we can both feel "physically & emotionally safe to explore our desires.
I am not poly, nor am I bi-sexual (Bi-Sensual Yes, bi-sexual well... Let's put it this way, I would not be opposed to playing with another couple if we don't share, swap or switch. I am "bound" to my dominant.
I do not have time for cyber or phone sex. I am not interested in an "online Dom." I desire a real person. I am not intested in being a #2 Slave/Sub, I'm not interested in discrete encounters with married folks. I'm not poly nor do I want to explore that avenue. I am "me" and I desire to become a "we."
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Ideal Person: I desire to attract my soul mate, my best friend, my equal, my partner, my MASTER my Dominant, My Life Mate. I am open to newbie Masters as well as experienced Doms. It's about exploring and communicating at a deep emotional level. The Love and Trust must be established before this kind of play takes place. I am not interested in play partners, or the curious. Trust, respect & patience play a big factor with any developing relationship. If you are a Man who can see yourself being "best-friends" with a Woman, call me! The kind of relationship I seek to attract is a connection of the Body, the Mind & The Spirit. I do not enjoy just one part with out the other two.
Turn on's: Good Character, Integrity, Respect, Honesty, Openess, Communication, Emotionally Balanced, Caring, Intelligenence, Responsible, Accountable, Warm Hearted, Fit & Engaging Conversationalist. Just be yourself!
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My Ideal Person:
Turn on's: Good Character, Integrity, Respect, Honesty, Openess, Communication, Emotionally Balanced, Caring, Intelligenence, Responsible, Accountable, Warm Hearted, Fit & Engaging Conversationalist. Just be yourself!
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