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niastri  
Lonely in NM
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Member Since: January 11, 2005

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Information:
Gender:   Woman
Birthdate:   August 29, 1959
(50 years old)
Astrological Compatibility
Lives in:   Portales, New Mexico, United States
Relocate?:   Prefer not to say
Height:   5 ft 6 in / 167-170 cm
Body Type:   A little extra padding
Smoking:   I'm a heavy smoker
Drinking:   I'm a light/social drinker
Drugs:   I don't use drugs
Education:   Some college
Race:   Caucasian
Sexual Orientation:   Straight
Speaks:   English
Hair Color:   Brown
Hair Length :   Medium
Eye Color :   Brown
Glasses or Contacts :   Glasses


LifeStyle
Activities Enjoyed:   Anal Sex; Asphyxiaphilia (Breath Play); Biting; Blindfolds; Blood; Bondage; Branding; Breast/Nipple Torture, Clamps, etc.; Candle Wax; Chinese Balls/Ben Wa Balls/Anal Beads; Cling Film; Cupping (Suction of the Skin); Depilation/Shaving; Dildos (Handheld & Strap-ons); Discipline; Electrotorture (EMS TENS units); Fisting; Gangbangs; Hair Pulling; Handcuffs/Shackles; Humiliation; Klismaphilia (Douching/Enema); Knife/Needle Play; Nipples; Oral Sex; Pain; Piercings; Play Piercing; Rack/Medieval Devices; Sensory Deprivation; Spanking/Paddling; Talking Dirty; Toys; Vibrators; Whips
I think about ALT lifestyle:   Once a day
Role:   Submissive
Level of Experience:   Whole adult life
Dress:   Casual
Social Orientation :   Liberal
Safe Sex:   Yes
Demeanor:   Average

Personal
Body Decorations : Tattoo(s)
Breast Size: 36 / 80 B
Pubic Hair: Prefer not to say
Marital Status: Widowed
Have Children: Yes. We live together.
Want Children : Happy with what I have
Religion: Prefer not to say

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50 year old Woman in Portales, New Mexico, United States Looking For: Men for active participation

Profile for niastri
I am honest and intelligent, and respect those qualities in others.

In everyday matters, I am not submissive in any way shape or form, and have no desire to be anything other than an equal.

At play time, I desire anything but equality; I am a bottom and a bit of a pain slut. OK, maybe more than a bit

It is important to me that my play partner have an understanding of my limits and needs as well. The ability to know if it is time to slow or stop, even when I do not.

I enjoy pain, being forced (consensual force?), having my limits tested and pushed when we play. I am not a slave, nor could I be. I desire only equality in everyday life. Mutual respect and tolerance for one another is a must. When we are not playing, it is still the man's job to fix the fence and take out the trash. I will argue over the remote, but never the flogger

I do have some physical limitations due to health, this unfortunately must be accomodated in any type of relationship.

There are many things I would still like to try, and fantasies I would love to have fulfilled. Some mild, some not so. As well, there are many thigns I have tried and liked or disliked.
I believe in open communication to discover all those thigns and people's feelings about them, desire for them, and limits regarding them. Though I do sometimes hesitate discussing them, I am not sure why. [if255 1]

My Ideal Person:
I hope to find a friend and play partner. One who can fulfill both physical and intellectual needs, perhaps one day even emotional ones.

Someone who will enjoy discussing the social impacts of cloning almost as much as he will enjoy expanding my pain threshold.

Someone who can ease my fears and test my limits at the same time.
Someone who will push my limits, and then be there for that important come-down period after.

I hope to find someoen who does not have hangups about age or appearance, and is willing to experiment and try new things. And if you can teach me, please do, you will find an eager student. I am willing to relocate for the right one.

I believe one must be friends to trust, and trust is extremely important. To that end, I have several requests:

Please be intelligent, able to converse as well as torture.
Please be clean, I am and intend to stay that way.
Please be honest, there is nothing worse than a liar.
Please be mature, I am not interested in head games.

These are the basics of any relationship, short- or long-term. And where better to start than the basics?


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