Settling into a great new life in the Chicagoland area. The move has been good for my life, career, home and taking advantage of so much that Chicago has to offer. Looking to make some new friends and maybe to meet that one person that my heart will go flip flop over. Finally found out that a balance of vanilla and scene makes my life tick and now happy and content except for not having that special person to share it with.
Seeking an intelligent, handsome, sexy, fun, funny, playful, passionate, and viril man. In particular, a gentleman with a good loving heart. One to show me a world of erotic exploration, intellectual pusuits and spiritual seeking. Looking for that unique someone who can treat me with respect and give respect in return and grow me to new horizons. Respect is necessary not only for Sir and myself but needs to be directed to the public. Though I enjoy a touch, a kiss, a swat in public, how one dresses and acts in public need not draw attention. Nothing excites me more than that of a take charge man. Not into establishing a 24/7 LS relationship. I prefer this man to have one leg solidly in the vanilla and the other into the Lifestyle.
I consider myself well educated, sweet, sassy, and sexy. I am looking to explore all facets of my sexuality. In my work career, I am assertiveness and dominant, but to achieve balance in my life, I prefer to develop my submissive side to the one I choose. I enjoy dropping the responsibility when leaving the office to focus on a man who can rock my world and do all to rock his. I will not be your slave or doormat. I am not into humiliation but into respect, love, communication and very spiritual. I want to meet that someone who can complete my life.
I love the arts (theater, opera, music, museums), some sports, love travel and some camping and love horseback. I have degrees in engineering and business. I was born a city girl and dress and act accordingly but find that I also enjoy camping. I consider myself driven to be and look my best.
I have been back into the lifestyle since 2003 though dabbled in it for years when younger and before my vanilla marriage. I served a wonderful loving couple between '03-'06 and find the draw into D/s and the lifestyle a wonderful addition to my life. I was released leaving my couple behind to take this new career jump that relocated me to NW Chicago. I attend events and functions as I can. Looking to establish new friends and in hopes of finding someone special.
My career limits where I can relocate but for the special person and relationship nothing is impossible and would consider relocation.
If you are married and cheating on a spouse/partner, I do not wish to be a party to that. Only exception is if your spouse/partner embraces the lifestyle or openly knowledgeable in your exploits or would also be involved.
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My Ideal Person:
I would like find a man or couple that I could settle into for a long winter night that would last a lifetime. Give all the affection within to serve both within the vanilla and lifestyle and to take me to places in the lifestyle that are fullfilling.
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