I'm shy and skittish. I can be perky, playful, mischievous, and downright pervy once you get to know me, but I won't show that side immediately. In my 9-to-5 life, I'm assertive and self-assured, but I want a guy who can take control in the bedroom. But I should warn you, I'm not submissive at all times with all people. It takes someone I respect to get that side out of me. I'm willing to follow, if you're the type of guy I should be following... I'm intelligent and qualified to take over the reigns if you're not. I just would prefer not to. Submissive by nature, Dominant by necessity.
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My Ideal Person:
I'm no masochist; I'm not into pain for pain's sake alone. And I don't want a severe disciplinarian... what I want is someone who can help me explore my sexual side and remind me what sex is like when you trust someone completely. Add a lot of kink in the mix and you'll win me over. ... maybe for a long time.
What I'm looking for is a man who can be decisive, make decisions, take control. I want someone who makes me feel womanly in the bedroom...
I'm not looking for a male chauvenist pig or a sugar daddy. I'm looking for a man in whose arms I feel safe, who is encouraging, uplifting, and whom after I am with him, I feel like I can go back out and conquer the world. (though I may prefer to stay in bed with him a few hours longer)
Although I admire married men, in my mind, they're off limits. Although I'm open-minded, having never been married before, I appreciate and respect the sanctity of marriage too much to be the one to violate it. So if you're married, please email only if you want to be email buddies. And if you're looking for a one night stand or a fuck buddy, please move on. I will not have sex with someone unless I trust them completely and anyone who has met me will vouch for the fact that it takes a lot for me to trust.
My profile says "straight" for a reason. I don't have lesbian tendencies at all and I'm not bicurious. I have made one exception for a FEMDOM, whom I just consider a Dom. Don't expect me to jump into a sister sub relationship ESPECIALLY if I don't know you or know your sub. In other words, if I haven't known you AND your sub since before I moved to Hawaii, don't even suggest a sister sub relationship! If you already have someone you're training, please don't email me to tell me about it. I don't really care... Just move on. I'm perfectly happy in my situation that I don't need to join your family. I already have one... it's my network of friends: lifestyle and otherwise. I don't mean to be hostile, but this is so that I don't get the same requests via email.
Updated 1/11/08: Although I am officially single as of yesterday, I'm not looking at the moment. I'll gladly be friends.
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