My Ideal Person:
The term forced is a bit misleading, because I don’t think I am forcing a
submissive man to perform on me ! It must be part of his submissive nature
to go down on me and therefore get his kicks fulfilled as well in the
process.

The term “forced” for me stands much more for the fact
that I can demand his oral services at anytime, in any way, under any
circumstances, as much as I like, as intensive as I like…. and without any
obligations whatsoever ! It equally includes that I can really “let my hair
down” as well, knowing that he is prepared, trained and willing to accept it
all…., i.e. all my juices and flavors…basically whatever my body wants to
give him !

This last point is very important to me, because it enables me to enjoy his
oral services fully, without any inhibitions or bad feelings about my bodily
functions.

On his part this means he has to be prepared to lick, eat, swallow, gulp
whatever I choose to pump in his mouth….and he has to do it willingly,
efficiently and swiftly without any hesitation and without interrupting or
bothering my enjoyment.

Another point is that I do like to ride his face pretty roughly at times,
especially when I am heating up !! Hence he has to be able to endure quite a
facial battering and heavy grinding, which leaves his face ( and tongue,
mouth, jaw, chin, nose ) pretty sore after a good oral session. I consider
this the trademark of a good pussy eater.

Equally important is that I never owe him anything, no matter how intensive,
hard and possibly humiliating the oral service was ! It is one of the key
points for me about oral worship….it has to be totally unselfish, i.e.
giving, without expecting or demanding anything in return.

I find that only like that I can truly enjoy his oral service, well knowing
that I don’t have to reciprocate, i.e. suck his dick or swallow his load or
having to let him fuck me in return. I don’t even want to feel obliged to
make him cum too, no matter how many times he has provided me with a
thundering climax.

On the contrary ! I very much enjoy toying with him after a great oral
service by him, i.e. I cuddle him and tease him to a throbbing erection,
praising his oral skills and how happy he made me. As soon as he is leaking
precum I cool him down again…and maybe go for another teasing round
afterwards.

As a rule I never let him cum when he is pleasing me orally, simply because
I want him to focus on my pleasure only during any form of oral worship.

His sexual relief comes at a totally independent moment from my sexual
joy….at a moment, situation and in a way of my choice ! He has to wait for
it, trust me and accept my decisions without any protest !

Another “forced” aspect is that I have the right to lend, give or offer him
to any other woman of my choice for any kind of oral service and I expect
him to perform with utter respect and enthusiasm, no matter who it is,
whether he knows her or not and above all no matter whether he likes her or
not. I would say here the “forced aspect” is most apparent, especially when
the woman I make him serve may not be his “cup of tea” !!

So looking at it this way the term “forced” has a slightly different
meaning. It means that a man is doing something, which usually he wouldn’t,
but does in order to prove to a woman how much he respects, adores and
worships her. He may not be physically forced to do it, but emotionally
….because he wants to please … and so he should !

I simply like that and find it is a must for every man who truly wants to
worship a woman.