Looking for the key for my lock. I love the outdoors, travelling, animals, cooking and gardeninOk for all of you who kept complaining my profile was not very revealing, I filled out the checklists. I did not fill out the bdsm ones because I don't believe it is some kind of a shopping list. Two people merge it however they agree. Also, I don't answer one line emails. Understand this, if I send you a one liner, I am initiating contact. It's a man's job and especially a Dom's job to court a woman which means the man puts in the most of the effort. To do less is akin to being in public and expecting a woman who glances at you to approach you, do all the talking, buying you drinks and driving you home. A Dom can't expect the woman to do all the courting and then get a devoted sub out of it. Also I don't post a pic and I will not continue wasting my time with men who say hello, send a pic. I refuse to be reduced to someone's superficial interpretation. Don't mistake this opinion to mean I am unattractive and have something to hide; I do not. But I refuse to share with a man who has made no effort to get to know me first before trying to put me in a category.
Also, if you choose to post a pic be mature enough to realize that no one asked you to so that quid pro quo approach is not applicable. Also, all this pretty "what can you do for me" prose is amusing, most men don't address the realities of the relationship they claim to want such as the ends and outs of everyday living. People my age aren't like 20 somethings that don't have a lot of responsibilities and "baggage." It's a fool's paradise to think you will get this mind blowing sub that can just completely give up her existence to serve you when you don't mention how exactly that would be brought about.
Other than those ground rules, I am looking for an ethical, educated hard working man without a lot of baggage (which includes alimony and a lot of child support) who realizes that distance is irrelevant at the initial stages of getting to know someone and who is looking to possibly start a family with a sweet, ethical, educated and hard working woman who would like to dommed sexually. And if you are looking for casual sex buddies, pass me by. I am not easy and easy men are not attractive.
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My Ideal Person:
I am looking for a middle aged, intelligent, caring man who understands treating a woman with honesty and respect. If you are married, attached, have a live-in, old girl friend hanging around etc- please pass me by. Thanks!
Also, I don't like wasting my life away in front of a computer, so if you are too timid or hesitant to switch to phones relatively soon, pass me by. We are grown ups after all.
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