My Ideal Person:
a good fisting partner, someone that likes to play with wax, and light bondage, but who is willing to teach slightly harder bondage, on long term basis for discret meetings. (not available for 24/7)

and/or

a pair or group of men that would be interested in DP (including double vaginal and possibly double anal[with training] pen. or with group filling all holes), group fisting, gangbang situations, service girl/bukake situations.