"What the caterpillar calls the end of the world, the Master calls a butterfly" ~ Richard Bach
I want a total relationship. Pain and bondage are necessary for the health of a sexual relationship with me, and a total relationship would include those... but it would also include other shared interests, comfort, appreciation, and similar levels of intellect.
I am looking for a "Daddy" type Dom, a nurturing person who will help me grow both in my capacity as His submissive/slave and also as a person.
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My Ideal Person:
The man I want doesn't have to be tall, dark, or overly handsome. He is an intelligent and well-read person. A person of the world and not only of his hometown. He is successful because he is happy with his position in life. He doesn't need to be rich. He is tactful but honest. He is emotionally available and comfortable discussing anything. He is caring and mature. He is funny and light hearted about most things. He seeks out great people and intellectual discussion. He is content to spend time cuddled in bed on a rainy day but also enjoys being out with friends. He is not a workaholic. He leaves work at work and goes home to play. He is sadistic because he enjoys creating sensations in his partner. He loves to see her squirm. He loves to tie her up and enjoy controlling her body. He loves to touch her mind.
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