Update: It's now been 2 1/2 years into my journey and i continue to grow and learn. i consider myself a bottom with submissive tendencies. i have taken my time and been very selective with play partners. i have not been collared for various reasons. i consider D/s a very serious commitment and as a single mother, i can't devote 24/7 to the lifestyle. My passion is bondage and discipline and have many other interests as well. I believe life is sublime and to be enjoyed. I love to have fun and don't take myself too seriously.
IMPORTANT NOTE!!! I am not here to get laid. My lifestyle journey is very important to me and I am interested in finding play partners. With the right Dominant a sexual relationship would be wonderful.
I've been exploring my submissive nature for a little over a year now and loving every minute of it! In a perfect world, i would love to find my "One", but for now, i would love to meet someone who i could be friends with and possibly become a play partner. I prefer single men. I've discovered i am passionate about rope bondage and also spankings. I'm sensual in nature and not a masochist, however, i do enjoy spankings and floggings very much, as well as hot wax and the violet wand. I will practice common courtesy, but do not expect a doormat prior to negotiation. Life requires me to be dominant and i am a very strong, intelligent woman. My largest erogenous zone is my brain and i need intelligent conversation, positive energy, honesty and mutual respect in a partner. I'm a great fan of the male anatomy, but please save your dangly parts for later.
I am a classy lady, a single mom, and enjoy being a woman. While i do have a strong craving for sex and bdsm, it is not my only focus in life and i'm passionate about other things as well. I'm a voracious reader, i love sudoku puzzles, music and i do volunteer work with kids. I love to laugh and cherish each day. My kids are always going to be my first priority.
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My Ideal Person:
Update: I am seeking friends and possible play partners. I am polite and respectful however, i consider us to be equals during the process of getting to know each other. I have been approached my Doms who expect submission and subservience in someone they've never met. I enjoy meeting Dominants who are intelligent, articulate, respectful, honest and polite. Protocols would be discussed after meeting in person and getting to know each other.
I would like to meet a man or woman to become friends with and possibly become intimate with. I expect honesty, respect and discretion. A person with a great personality and good sense of humor is more important to me than a "pretty boy/girl". I have
a very high sex drive and would like to see someone on a regular basis. I don't play games and not looking for a one-night stand. If you are into head games, or you are a liar or not interested in meeting a real woman, please don't waste my time or yours! If you are looking for an *online* D/s arrangement, I'm not interested. I get turned on easily but i am selective and don't sleep around. A man that is secure in himself excites me and inspires me to explore my hedonistic,untapped desires!
I am impressed with intelligence, class, a gentleman that knows how to approach a true lady, and a great sense of humor. Money, status, or a man that must use his dominance to feel good about himself does not interest me. An intelligent man knows that the key to attracting a sexy woman is to show respect and be honest. Once trust is established, it is possible to explore an edgier, rougher side of sex. The expression "safe, sane, consensual sex" is a must for me. A thoughtful, sensitve man is a much better lover, in my humble opinion. If you have a list of requirements, instructions, dress code or expect a mindless slave, please look elsewhere. If you are looking for a woman who has a high sex drive and can be your intellectual equal, who is willing to explore and enjoy new experiences, you might be a good fit for me. I would like to find someone to have a monogamous sexual relationship with due to health concerns. I am D/D free and I insist on good hygiene and drug and disease free partner. I would not ask anything of you that I would not ask of myself. D/s is a very serious commitment, in my opinion, and I am really not in a position to be in a 24/7 arrangement.
Write me; tell me about yourself and what you seek. I have found a few play partners here but have never spoken to anyone that I could call Master.
Thanks for actually taking the time to read my profile. I am a standard member and depending on the frequency of my visits or blogs here, may or may not be able to read yours.
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