I am one who has seen both sides of this lifestyle coin. I started off as a submissive and discovered my dominant side through that part of me. Though I am seeking to exert this dominance, I may wish to switch on occasion because I still enjoy experiencing my submissive side.
I can be a kind and gentle dominant or I can be sadistic and brutal. My ideal is somewhere in between the two extremes. The one I seek is someone who possesses the intelligence, strength and confidence to complement me.
Intelligence is a very important element to any relationship in which I am involved. Ultimately, succeeding in this lifestyle is dependent, in large part, on the mental aspect of interaction. While I can make adjustments for differences in educational levels, it is important for you to know that I will not be able to survive in any relationship in which I feel that I have to dumb myself down for it to last. At first, a lot of our interaction will be through email chat, messenger chat, and telephone conversations. I expect you to be intelligent enough to carry on a conversation or write an email utilizing proper grammar. In other words, you must know the difference between dominant and dominate.
Submission is not about giving up strength but building it. You must be strong enough to recognize what is best for you and strive to achieve it. My goal is to help you achieve your goals, building on the strengths you already possess. This will not be a constant battle of wills but I do expect you to have a backbone and stand up for what you believe. I will never presume to make life choices for you; those are your decisions to make. I will, however, assist you in recognizing your inner power to make those decisions.
The well-rounded submissive exudes self-confidence, proving daily to their master or mistress and the world that they recognize their own self-worth. They make their dominant proud with their service but they perform whatever service with confidence that they know what they are doing. Earning my praise is not difficult if something is done properly and, while I will not reward something done incorrectly, I will not punish an error if it is done with confidence.
I am an intelligent, strong, self-confident woman and I expect any submissive exhibit the same qualities. I will not accept blind obedience, for I believe that is a path to failure. I am intelligent enough to know that I am not always right, strong enough to admit that, and self-confident enough in my abilities to know that I can ultimately make the correct decision for myself and help my submissive make the correct decision for himself.
My ideal person will have a keen mind and will be able to challenge me intellectually while maintaining their role as a submissive. They will possess the strength and self-confidence to stand up for what they believe is right and not give in just because I am their dominant. They will not argue but will present their differing opinion logically. If they sway my opinion, fine; if they do not, they must be willing to accept my decision, regardless of the outcome.
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My Ideal Person:
As stated above, I seek someone who is intelligent, strong and confident. I require loyalty, honesty and, above all, respect.
I am single. While I will not require a submissive to be single, I will expect a married submissive to be honest with their mate with regards to our relationship. I will do nothing sneaky because I am better than that and I expect you to be also.
At the present time, I am only available for email, messenger and telephone chats. The next few months will be very busy and time away will be at a premium. As you can probably tell, I am a writer and having someone to engage my mind is very important. You will have the opportunity to prove your skills at this.
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