Let me put this right in the beginning so there can be no mistakes made... If you already have a wife, a girlfriend, or are otherwise attached... Please save us both time and don't contact me as I have absolutely no interest in being the "Other Woman" in any mans life.
First and Foremost I am a Woman of Strength and Deep Conviction... I am a BBW femme with deep blue eyes and long raven colored curls which are fast beginning to gray... I am 5'8" in height and am most always happy and smiling...
I am a sweet femme with eyes the color of indigo and hair the color of a raven (sometimes) dependant on my moods. I have been involved in the D/s lifestyle all of my adult life, and have for a long time been seeking that One with whom I could feel that connection be that as a submissive or as a Domme. Though I am a Switch, I much prefer the submissive side of the lifestyle when possible. What I don't seek is a partner who is also a Switch. For now I do not seek 24/7, but seek someone who desires regular time together which I can host at my home as I do live alone. I don't drive and thus really cannot travel to meet.
Yes you may also know me as IndigoEyedSlave, softprincess, GentleVisions, a_gentle_lildove, LadySilvrWolfe, or even submissvfrmHell. I am and always will be myself no matter what name I use and every profile has always been the same.
I view life as something of great importance and thus never take a single day for granted... I choose to live my life based on Honor, Honesty, and Loyalty to those I am Committed to, and as such I do tend to expect others who wander into my life to possess those characteristics as well...
I am most often a very gentle natured creature who would go to great lengths to avoid conflict, and am as a result quite often disillusioned with the world around me and the lack of honesty from those with whom I must share my time from day to day... I have a gentle spirit and am easily wounded by the lack of genuine caring the world around me displays, thus I tend to withdraw into myself and seek out only those capable of compassion and loving unconditionally...
I am a Mother, a Lover, and to many a Friend... Having already outlived my three beautiful children gives me a strength most will never need in life, and has taught me to be more compassionate to those less fortunate than I in this life... And yes the loss of three children has also taught me to love more deeply and unconditionally than I ever knew was possible, for we never truly know when those we love may suddenly be gone from our lives forever...
I am college educated having both an MSW and PhD in Psychology and Behavioral Sciences from Holy Cross College in Massachusetts and a Masters in Business Administration from Vanderbilt University in Tennessee... I do a great deal of volunteer work in the Domestic and Child Abuse fields for an area Battered Women's Shelter, and make a modest living as a graphic artist and web designer.I also own a gift and collectibles business and maintain a full shop on the web.
Though I am in a wheelchair as a result of a broken neck, I live quite independently and have a fairly normal life for the most part... I still play and enjoy a good game of Tennis or Basketball, love to ride horseback, swim on a regular basis and have a normal social life... I cook, sew, garden, maintain my own home, play a keyboard and compose my own music... So I guess You could say life hasn't changed a great deal simply because I no longer have the ability to walk un aided.I do use crutches within my home when possible.
If you have a need for drama or to be rude and insulting, please save it for someone who might give a flying rats arse, because I simply don't care to hear it.
[COLOR red]***WARNING: Any institutions or individuals using this site or any of its associated sites for studies or projects - You DO NOT have permission to use any of my profile or pictures in any form or forum both current and future. If you have or do, it will be considered a violation of my privacy and will be subject to legal ramifications.
****UPDATE*******To: Sydney University and all other institutions using this or any Passion.com site or its associated sites for projects - You do not have permission from me to use any of my profile or pictures in any form or forum both current and future. If you have or do, it will be considered a violation of my privacy and will be subject to legal action.
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My Ideal Person:
If a submissive is willing to 'give up' their family, spouse and children for a Dominant then they are expressing a failure of personal oath no different from that of a Dominant who engages in D/s relationships as affairs while violating the integrity of their bound oath to spouse and family.
A collaring is yet another form of bonded or given formal oath. The desire by both people to engage in this oath and to have that oath be meaningful in any way requires for their word to be sound. Those who enter and leave oaths casually express disrespect for the ideal, measure and worth of the lifestyle and the choices of those who base it on TRUST, HONOR, RESPECT and personal INTEGRITY!
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