curiousity will be my downfall. friendly, a little shy, talkative, laid back, inquisitive, intelligent. i don't respond well to pre written emails or cliches. I do respond well to direct questions and unique thoughts. i also don't respond to "i've always wanted to be with a black girl" type emails.
I'm new to this scene. I'm not out to get laid or horn in on someone's dom. I genuinely just want to learn more about this lifestyle in general. It has always interested me and drawn me and this is a facet where i can actually talk with people that walk the walk and not just read stories.
I wouldn't say I'm a "sub" and all that entails. It is in my nature to be submissive and I get most my pleasure from serving others and making them happy. I'm a very giving person. I am most comfortable when I am being controlled. Sexually, I am also very new. I've had one partner and recently found out that I really like a lot of the activities listed under the "alt" lifestyle.
Basically, right now I'm looking for people to talk to, men and women.
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My Ideal Person:
someone manly, dominant in a non jerkish way, open minded, likes varied conversation.
I love intellectual stimulation. Yeah, I know women say all the time that they are looking for smart guys. I like the smart guys that enjoy having discussions, sharing ideas, feelings, events and more importantly, can formulate these from within.
A nice looking wang and a nice body doesn't hurt either.
I'm pretty submissive. Not so specific like S/M roles, but I like traditional roles and dominant men. I like to make my partner happy, whatever his desires may be. I get my most enjoyment from his orgasm, him being happy.
In general, I'm looking for someone to push me where I would normally be too scared to go.
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