Perhaps it might make perfect sense for me to describe what I feel submission is. To surrender really means to relax and let someone else have his or her strength. We surrender a part of ourselves that is softer and less controlling. It's not a game we play; it's a dance we do. In this case, the feminine force is intuitive and nurturing, the connecting glue.
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My Ideal Person:
What do I seek? A passionate partner who knows that the purpose of intimacy is to soften the muscles around our hardened places and to keep pliant the places where we're already open. Oh, and it would not hurt if you wore pressed shirts and knew how to order a nice bottle of wine.
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