My Ideal Person:
I seek a true slave, not a sub or a man wanting to add some kink spice to his life. If you don't know the difference between a slave and a sub then move on. I seek only a true slave. This is not all about you; it is about how you can serve me. This is not all about sex; it is about a committed relationship.
I am not your normal Domme/mistress. I am seeking a femdom relationship more so than a BDSM relationship. I am not a sadist and when discipline or punishment is called for it pains me more than it pains you. I believe a woman’s place is in the home caring for the children (yes, I have children) and caring for the home so that the boy can spend his time out earning a living for his family.
I am very old-fashioned with high morals and expectations. Honesty, loyalty, and devotion are vital. You will love, honor, and obey me in all things. Never forget, that although I take your ideas and feelings into account, I have the final say on all subjects.
Due to the fact that there are children in the home, some fun activities will not happen in our day-to-day lives, such as you eating my table scraps from the floor or you crawling around the house. These sorts of activities will have to wait until the children are not present.
I do expect my boy to appear ‘vanilla’ in everyday outings and around the children. This means that to observers my boy is just a devoted, loving gentleman/husband. This does not mean that while in a ‘vanilla’ setting you are allowed to treat me in a piggish male way. You will at all times treat me as your queen.
I am seeking a beta slave. This boy needs to be intelligent, highly motivated, an excellent communicator, be able to make me laugh, be average to good looking, be resourceful, and be bi-sexual or at least willing to play completely with another boy sexually.
I am not some middle aged woman going through a ‘phase’. I know who and what I am and know what it is that I seek. Although I am fairly new to this lifestyle, rest assured I am committed to this. Please note: that while I may start out as a gentle mistress/Domme/lady this might not always be the case. As I continue to grow into this new skin there will be changes in the degree to which my boy will serve me.


My availability is limited and precious to me, so only those who truly desire to serve at my feet need respond. You must be intelligent, successful, financially secure, creative, and professional with a high level of self confidence and in control of your life. I understand your desperate aches for an escape in private and your most intense desire is to please me. You crave to be trained and I am the one to do so. You must be generous, communicative, passionate, chivalrous, loyal, and playful with a great sense of humor. I expect absolute devotion, servitude, and obedience.

If you have read all of this then you will know to address your letter to me with the title of Lady or Lady Pink.

Each person is as different as snowflakes. For me it’s the whole package; the heart and soul of the boy; the things that cannot be put into words.