~~ First and foremost I'm looking for a LTR. ~~ I know, you're thinking to yourself "Is she insane?? This is Alt.com!" I'm here because the sexual aspect of a relationship is important too and I thought it might be easier to try to find a strong, understanding man who cares about me, knowing that he is everything I want; rather than finding that in a person who would always leave me feeling like there's something missing. So until E-Hrmny starts putting handcuffs and floggers in their commercials... deal with it! (And besides, so what if I am?!) 
To be fair though, I know that what I'm looking for isn't going to be an easy find or an instant thing. Im not interested in anyone who is currently trying people on for size and open to the possibility of a relationship. I want someone who is looking for a relationship and wants to see if we are a good fit on an emotional level. I can have mind-blowing sex that would ultimately mean nothing to me anytime I want. I want someone I can share much more than sex with on an emotional level and someone who puts his family FIRST. What I need more than anything in this world right now, is to find someone who cares about ME.
*I WANT TO MAKE SURE EVERYONE IS CLEAR ON THIS PART* As far as I'm concerned, when people talk about taking care of someone, or improving the quality of their life, it is completely and totally an emotional thing! (If it was about material possessions or things you can hire someone to do for you, rich people would never kill themselves and poor people would never smile.)
I'm NOT all about the "lifestyle" and "labels" crap. I won't call you Master or Your Highness or whatever moniker you think will make you feel better about yourself. If I'm going to respect or admire you at all... it will be based on your actions as a person, not your job title or what you call yourself.
If you are stuck on traditional gender roles please dont contact me. I can tell you now that we arent a good fit. And I do have kids (only one at home right now) so you should also be a good role model.
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My Ideal Person:
He should like to do housework and ESPECIALLY laundry! (I know you guys are out there... I see em on "Wife Swap" all the time!) He should also be INTELLIGENT, HONEST, and LOYAL He should also like to see his woman with other men! That doesn't mean he should like the idea of his woman fucking around while he's at work. I'm not interested in fucking around and in fact, would rather he was THERE!
I'm not really looking for someone who wants to wear my panties and high heels though, which cuts the traditional Cuckold thing out. I think every relationship is unique and besides, I wouldn't want one that fits convieniently into some predefined slot anyway.
I need someone that can handle all of the little daily hassles that have always weighed on me like an anchor (you know, like... laundry, for example) so I can try to deal with the much bigger issues I'm facing.
Well now that I've put some of this in my profile I'm hoping more people will have some idea of what they'd be getting themselves into. (no pun intended f
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My interests have included: Being a HOTWIFE and/or Having a cuckold (but NOT a sissy) husband - Fisting - Something that begins with a K and ends with a 9 - Having an audience - Fisting - Being with a group of men,...ect...
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