My personality has been "take charge" from the age of 3. Equally as important, I've always understood what hides in the dark recesses of a person's mind: the things that sweetly torture them and would drop them to their knees if only they were not bound so tightly.
MY field of study is conservative (on the surface), therefore my business suits or casual clothes of the daytime completely hide my "other side": the one with thigh high stiletto boots and custom corsets. It's a side that will make you absolutely shake with desire to please me.
I am ultra strict, demanding, controlling and understand explicitly my sub's pleasure through pain and pleasing me, through teasing and denial, and even chastity. This knowledge has come to me in a most honest fashion having played the submissive in the very distant past. Though it was done briefly and with great difficulty, I became acutely aware of how exquisite the release of power could be.
However, it is my contention that we are who we are. Therefore, I've wisely embraced the Domme inside of me and revel in that role.
Be advised, I play by my own rules and never attended "Domme school", leaving me unrestrained by their conventional mantras and lines drawn in the sand. While there is a dark, sadistic streak in me and a penchant for humiliation, there is also my ability to easily segue into age play with the correct partner.
An apt description of me would be a sensual Domme who focuses on the brain first and the physical celebration of BDSM second. "Twisted" has also been used in reference to my cerebral process and the actions it has spurned. It is a lovely compliment.
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My Ideal Person:
A submissive, whether man or woman, who is interested in many forms of play but not straight sex, is the ticket here. I'm looking for more of a personal exchange than that. Your level of experience is not a critical factor if you wish to submit to me. I have the toy chest and experience to make you moan or whimper.
An intelligent mind is crucial.
Discretion is of the utmost importance.
Honesty and sincerity are truly at the top of my "Admirable Qualities List". While that sounds a little quaint, it is the basis for trust: a necessity in the powerful, erotic game we play. Bear this in mind when you apply to session with me.
DO NOT write to me about your "high sex drive" and how much you want to "fuck" because you have utterly missed the point or cannot read which says volumes about your IQ.
When you write to me, I do not expect it to be in full submission mode for you are not my submissive, nor am I your Mistress. However, there are a few things you should refrain from and actions to accomplish in order avoid outright rejection. Type your thoughts to me in an e-mail, detailing past experience, why you wish to serve me, and what you have to offer. This will help you plead your case. Asking me outright to chat with you, providing no other information will get your e-mail deleted. Those e-mails are abundant. Do not ask for sex. A photo of yourself, at least partially clothed is relatively original, believe it or not. Yes, this letter should aim to impress.
As stated before, I have switched before and it helps me to understand the sub's mind and position, but this situation will not happen again. The Domme/sub relationship though, works almost flawlessly, providing I decide to let you into my world.
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