Just Me. Either you like Me or you don't. It's ok if you don't. I'm not here to impress anyone. I'm here to enjoy the company of F/friends I've made over the years of being in alt. Maybe even try and make some new ones.
Being born and bred in the south, respect has always been second nature to Me. It's an automatic thing. However, do not take that for granted. I can take it away just as quickly as I give it out when I see respect is not given in return. Like the old saying goes, "Gotta give it to receive it."
I'm not a self-titled Mistress. You know the kind. The kind that thinks since they have a strong minded personality that automatically makes them a Mistress. For those that are self-titled, I have no use for. Those are the one's that truly have no clue what the L/s is all about. Being a Master/Mistress is something that has to be earned with training and education. You can't put a title on yourself and expect others to see it. Actions speak louder than words. I am, however, a Domme.
I'm not a Domme that seeks out a sub, puts a collar on him/her within a few days of meeting and expects them to jump when told to. Nope, just ain't gonna happen with this ole Gal. I like to take My time, get to know them, their likes, dislikes, what turns them on, what turns them off, what makes them who they are. You just can't learn that within a few days or weeks of meeting. It takes time, patience and alot of getting to know one another.
I am confident enough within myself to know what I want out of a sub, what I expect out of a sub and how to bring out the best of what a sub has to offer. What I don't expect is someone to be a doormat with Me. I have a doormat..on My front porch step. If you can carry on an intelligent conversation, you've peeked My interest. That's an expectation I carry high.
I've been here far too long to pull any punches. I'll tell you straight up how it is. Either about Me and what I like or My feelings about the L/s. All you have to do is ask.
There you have it. In a nutshell. Me.
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My Ideal Person:
The qualities I look for in a sub are as follows but not necessarily in this order:...honor, integrity, and honesty. You have these three qualities, you have a leg up in the game. Also, it helps to have open communication between all parties involved. If you don't, all you're doing is fixing yourself up for disappointment.
justagurl970 is all I need or want in a submissive. What W/we've shared over the months goes beyond a Domme/sub relationship, she's become My best friend. I never thought I would find My soulmate within the lifestyle. gurlie truly completes Me.
FOOTNOTE: If you have a cock or pussy pic for a profile picture, don't bother sending Me a message. I WILL NOT answer nor give you the time of day.
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