We're an everyday couple with alternative ideas. Sharing similar ideology as the poly community, we're looking to expand our relationship to include another.
We're married, 40 and 44, and have been searching for the right someone on and off for 5 years. We're a handsome couple, but we're not Barbie and Ken by any stretch of the imagination, and don't expect you to be either.
After a few heartbreaking experiences recently (with defined ideas of what we wanted), we're opening our hearts and minds to whatever/whomever comes our way. We thought we were looking for a polyfidelitious triad or "V" type situation. Perhaps you can help us define our family?
Although we are not decidedly "bi", our hearts have no gender boundaries and we believe a loving relationship could involve anyone - the physical manifestation of the relationship will work itself out.
Please: Respect and Regard go a long way. We're not desperate. We seek a quality individual.
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My Ideal Person:
Looking for someone intelligent, strong, open minded, and one who is willing to share themselves; mind, heart, body, and soul. One who is interested in joining us along the journey.
Let’s try to be friends first - Chatting, Email, Coffee, dinner out, see a movie, live, laugh, and love. Our individual connections will determine the outcome of our relationship so we're not going to set anything in stone. We are interested in you as a whole person, and want you to be the same with us.
Please: Have ability to accept the pace we set for communication and meetings. Understand that there is collaboration on our end prior to making decisions about most things.
Finally: This is not a way for you to get your first taste of a 3-way, nor are we interested in anyone looking for friends with benefits (or any other terminology you may use for a non-committal situation). Not interested in married, or attached people. Again, we want to know you as a whole person, not just behind closed doors.
Enjoy! And, best of luck to all of you in your own search for Utopia!
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