I am a lifestyle Dominant still looking for that special sub (or subs) with which to explore a D/s relationship.
I prefer to be addressed as "My Lady", if you are a sub sending me a message put "Humble Request" in the first line so that I know you have read my profile carefully. Also, please send a photo of yourself - a nice head shot, no cock shots. I do not pursue subs, so if you fail to reply to an email/message I have sent, I will not send another. I also will not respond to messages from subs that do not conform to my guidelines. I am not interested in cyber or long distance relationships.
I am currently a working student, so my time is precious - I do not tolerate it being wasted.
I am looking for both casual play partners to meet at local play parties, and for long-term, D/s relationships. If you contact me, please be up front about which you would like to be. If we start playing casually, it is very unlikely that I will let it develop into something more.
My casual play guidelines are as follows:
-Your person must be clean, and you must be well-spoken and presentable.
-You must respect me - this means hands to yourself! You must also respect others. I will be watching to see how you treat those around you.
-You must be honest. Do not agree to do something that is beyond your limits just because I want to. In a casual, public dungeon situation I will not be testing your limits.
-You will not have any sexual contact with me. So don't even ask.
-If you can provide references from other Dominants in the area, please do not hesitate to do so.
If you too are seeking a long-term, D/s dynamic, please read the following carefully:
I come from a very independent background, my hobbies include art, hunting, fishing, sharp shooting, horseback riding, reading, and quite a few other things. I am looking for a submissive who can share in all (or most) spheres of my life, not just the kinky one. I am a country girl at heart, and my dream is to own a self-sufficient homestead at some point. So, if you can't milk a goat (and are unwilling to learn) read no further! I will be looking for a submissive who is my friend first, someone whose company I will enjoy on day trips, or even just staying in and watching a movie.
My personal philosophy is very independent, and my political affiliation is Libertarian. I come from a Christian background and still consider myself one, even though I have not found a church home yet. I would like a submissive who has personal views compatible to these.
I own a cat, and animals are a big part of my life and joy.
And now for my kinky tastes:
I am a sadist/hedonist, and enjoy inflicting pain on others while receiving physical pleasure/comfort, and watching others inflict/receive pain. I am also aroused by watching men together. Unfortunately my experience has been limited by my toy budget, so I have not been able to explore my desires for medical scenes, single tail sessions, and elaborate CBT scenes.
When a sub is courting me, I expect these courtesies:
-Return my communications promptly in the manner I sent them. (For example, do NOT respond with a text message when I left a voicemail.)
-Ask permission before playing with another person. (It is unlikely that I will say no at this stage, but I do want you to respect me enough to ask.)
-I wish to be impressed. This doesn't mean that you have to go out and buy expensive gifts- small courtesies and thoughtfulness go way farther than extravagance.
Once we have become friends, and have determined that we would like to go further, I will be introducing more D/s elements into our relationship. I move very slowly in my relationships, so if you are not in it for the long haul please look elsewhere.
I am not interested at all in sissy maids, cross-dressing, feminization, scat/urine play, or age play. I also am not looking for subs that are over 15 years older than me. If these are kinks that you must exercise, do not bother contacting me and wasting my time.
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