My Ideal Person:
I hope to find that elusive *much* older Daddy-Dom, that's as tall as the trees, with big bear-like paws.

Someone intelligent that understands that life is never black and white. Understanding that sometimes the most important things need not be said to be percieved.

Here's the reality of things:

--If you're under fifty, I'm probably not going to be interested.
--If your first sentence to me is a command like, "Kneel bitch," you'll probably be ignored.
--Begging for pictures is a turn-off!
--If you don't appreciate fat women neither one of us is going to be happy, move on.
--I really don't tolerate smoking, drugging or excessive drinking. There really isn't much room for negotiation, here.
--If you're married and being dishonest, I'm not interested.

That being said, my Husband is aware of my activities, here. He's also a member and we frequent the bbw room, here.

An enjoyable bonus would be to discover an older couple, in the lifestyle, that we could learn from and develop a relationship of trust.