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[COLOR white]Lifelong devotee of spanking, paddling, caning, and the like. Not necessarily seeking actual sexual contact (though I won't rule it out, either)…just spanking may be enough for both of us (?). It can be a good, old-fashioned bare-bottom spanking by hand (or with various implements — if we both agree), or something "heavier", if you'd like (if more extreme D/s scenes are more your style, that's fine, too). Will consider pretty much any scenario or flavor, whether you want to be genuinely punished as a naughty girl, prefer spanking as erotic foreplay, or just like the glow produced by having your bottom warmed. All limits and boundaries respected. No pressure, no commitments; just safe, sane, consensual, mutually-agreed play. I spank (and get spanked by) both women and men, and my sessions are — unless you specifically request otherwise — generally of moderate intensity (so as to extend the duration).
Let me make this absolutely clear: if you're husband-hunting or otherwise seeking commitment…keep looking. I'm interested only in narrowly-defined, no-strings-attached activities. I already have a permanent relationship — and I have absolutely no intention of changing that. This is strictly recreational for me, does not involve my wife in any way (her preference), and is strictly limited in scope. Also…if you're here [I]only[/I] to get laid…well, I'm not the person you're looking for. Though it [I]may[/I] lead to sex, the only thing guaranteed is spanking, over-the-knee, bare hand on bare bottom. (If you're partial to a particular hairbrush or paddle or somesuch, that can also be added in; I usually switch to a lightweight ping-pong paddle after things get going, anyway.)
I'm most often the spanker (about 70%-80% of the time), but I do frequently get that itch to switch. So…if you're more a spanker than a spankee (or you just get an occasional hankering for role-reversal), we could probably work that out, too.
Though my preference is for female playmates, I'm also amenable to play with select couples and male partners (I'm somewhat "bi-friendly" — to a point, anyway. Depends on what you're seeking. Just ask.)
I'm vas safe, D&D-free, clean, and shaved in the right places. I prefer that my partners also be shaved (or at least neatly-trimmed), but it's not a deal-breaker if you're more the "natural" type. I view the safe-sex and personal hygiene issues as the most important considerations in this area. Again, however, I regard actual sexual contact as a secondary interest; it's fine — if everything feels right. Not always a necessity, though.
Though I don't rule out one-night stands, I'm more interested in having a smaller network of compatible partners to engage in occasional encounters than in amassing a lengthy track record; promiscuity really isn't my style. Besides…it usually takes a few meetings to grow comfortable with a partner before things start to [I]really[/I] sizzle. I prefer to occasionally meet…play…then part company until the next time. So, if you're seeking to periodically scratch a special itch — then return to your "vanilla" world — we should talk.
[COLOR red][B]My Ideal Person:[/B][/COLOR]
Seeking taut, firm, spankable female bottoms of all (legal) ages. I'm usually the Top/spanker, but
frequently do switch/role-reversal to bottom with the right partner(s). Will consider select couples and male partners, as well.
[COLOR red][B]What type of scene activities are you active in or would you be interested in exploring?:[/B][/COLOR]
OTK bare-bottom spanking, primarily, usually with just the bare hand (though I'm certainly amenable to using various implements, e.g., paddle, cane, hairbrush, etc. with partners who have a need for something a bit more serious). Can also include face-slapping, hair-pulling, verbal humiliation, and the like — if my partner has such a need. Also open to other ideas, of course; basically, I adapt the scene to partner's desires and limits.
[COLOR red][B]The term BDSM covers a lot of ground. What's your scene?:[/B][/COLOR]
My interest in hard-core S&M and the like has waned considerably (though I still do play in that venue from time to time, and occasionally indulge my own S&M and D&S urges). Primary interest these days is simple OTK spanking for recreation and play, bare hand on bare bottom; however, I do, of course, accommodate partners' needs for rougher play, and can certainly handle any yearning for genuine punishment/discipline.
[COLOR red][B]How do you identify?[/B][/COLOR]
I am a Top — who frequently gets an itch to switch. ;-)
[COLOR red][B]How big of a role does BDSM play in your life?[/B][/COLOR]
BDSM is great, but it's more of an interest (though a passionate one) than a lifestyle. Purely recreatonal.
[COLOR red][B]What are your thoughts on anal play?[/B][/COLOR]
I always enjoy anal play, whether giving or receiving. Okay. I admit it: I'm an ass-man. (Surprising to find one of [I]those[/I] on this site, huh?)
[COLOR red][B]How about anal sex? As Top? As bottom? [/B][/COLOR]
I like anal sex, but, not [I]too[/I] frequently (in either role). Almost exclusively Top, but I've taken a strap-on from time to time.
[COLOR red][B]What's your take on fisting?[/B][/COLOR]
I've fisted and been fisted. Pretty intense stuff, to say the least. Requires a great deal of trust and patience, though (and a [I][B][U]LOT[/I][/B][/U] of lube!). A great addition to play — when the time is right.
[COLOR red][B]What type of roles have you played or would you be interested in exploring?[/B][/COLOR]
I've never been much for role-playing, as a rule; I generally accommodate partners' wishes in this area, though (and actually do enjoy some roles). Just tell me whatcha want.
[COLOR red][B]How many years of experience would you like your partner to have?[/B][/COLOR]
Honestly, it doesn't matter to me. Though experience is generally preferred (experienced playmates already [I]know[/I] what they want — and how to provide reciprocal pleasure), it's not a necessity. An eager newcomer can in fact sometimes make things more interesting.
[COLOR red][B]What are your thoughts and experiences with introducing people to the BDSM lifestyle who do not have any experience with or in it?[/B][/COLOR]
I've assisted many newcomers, and can be very patient
when necessary. It's sometimes nice to be a part of
someone finally experiencing that which was hitherto
only dreamed and fantasized about —or even agonized over.
[COLOR red][B]What types of scene activities are OFF LIMITS to you?[/B][/COLOR]
Basically…no , blood, needles, bodily wastes, or anything that causes permanent marking.
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[COLOR red][B][I][U]UPDATE:[/U][/I][/B]
For those of you who didn't bother to read the entire profile before…
I've always been open and up-front about my marital status. Yes, I'm married. Yes, my wife is aware of my activities here — and she approves; in fact, it was [I]her[/I] idea that I continue pursuing my interests here (the "why" is [I]our[/I] business).
For those who insist on criticizing and passing judgment on others…kindly direct your attention to the next profile. We are perfectly comfortable with our decisions and choices — and frankly don't care what you think.[/COLOR]
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My Ideal Person:
Seeking spankable female bottoms of all ages. I'm usually the Top/spanker, but I
frequently do switch/role-reversal to bottom with the right partner(s). Will consider select couples and male partners, as well.
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