I'm a Dominatrix, DM and a 12-stepper. My name is spelled "Lady JoL" (cap L, J, L ) pronounced Joelle (rhymes with noel). I'm very picky about that.
I love socializing and partying with My lifestyle friends. I want a male play partner who understands respect, protocol and submission. I respect hard limits, but I call the shots. I am not monogamous and I don't do drama.
In the early years, I was a switch. It is in that brief role that I learned first hand the enjoyment of endurance, inner strength and power exchange. Read My writing about endorphins and you will understand. I love being a Domme and love what I do. I'm proud to be one of the Ladies from Hades (thank you Ms Fran). I've done apex presentations on flogging, switching, erotic dance, flaming butterfly and humbler/ball crusher. I'm told I have a heavy hand, although I am able to temper it when necessary. I love extreme play and am discovering My sadistic side. yummm
I like performing, assisting, watching, and learning. I enjoy many forms of bdsm. My favorites include flogging, caning, spanking, singletail, cbt, wax, needles, etc (see My pictures). I am a true Domme with Her own toys and gadgets. I make many of My own things.
"It has to be done..." Lady JoL
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My Ideal Person:
I'm looking for alt lifestyle friends in My area and in the alt Southwest chat room... Lady JoL
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