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Information:
Gender:   Woman
Birthdate:   June 15, 1960
(49 years old)
Astrological Compatibility
Lives in:   Stowe, Vermont, United States
Height:   5 ft 3 in / 160-162 cm
Body Type:   Average
Smoking:   I'm a light/social smoker
Drinking:   I'm a light/social drinker
Drugs:   I don't use drugs
Education:   Some college
Race:   Caucasian
Sexual Orientation:   Straight
Speaks:   English
Hair Color:   Brown
Hair Length :   Medium
Eye Color :   Green
Glasses or Contacts :   Either


LifeStyle
Activities Enjoyed:   24/7 (Total Power Exchange); Age Play; Anal Sex; Ass Play; Biting; Blindfolds; Bondage; Breast/Nipple Torture, Clamps, etc.; Candle Wax; Chinese Balls/Ben Wa Balls/Anal Beads; Collar and Lead/Leash; Cupping (Suction of the Skin); Depilation/Shaving; Dildos (Handheld & Strap-ons); Discipline; Domination; Electrotorture (EMS TENS units); Exhibitionism/Sex In Public; Feathers; Fisting; Food Play; Hair Pulling; High Heels; Klismaphilia (Douching/Enema); Knife/Needle Play; Lace/Lingerie; Lactation; Leather; Making Home "Movies"; Massage; Masturbation; Mutual Masturbation; Nipples; Oral Fixation; Oral Sex; Pantyhose/Stockings; Participating in Erotic Photography; Power Exchange; Rack/Medieval Devices; Sensory Deprivation; Sex During Menstruation; Spanking/Paddling; Talking Dirty; Tongue Fetish; Toys; Vibrators; Voyeurism
I think about ALT lifestyle:   All the time
Role:   Submissive
Level of Experience:   One to five years
Dress:   Casual
Social Orientation :   Not Applicable
Safe Sex:   Yes
Demeanor:   Average

Personal
Body Decorations : Earring(s)
Breast Size: Prefer not to say
Pubic Hair: Shaved
Marital Status: Single
Religion: Prefer not to say

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49 year old Woman in Stowe, Vermont, United States Looking For: Men or Groups for Performing only (little or no contact), Watching only (little or no contact) or active participation

Profile for violetgem
I've awaken after a fairly long vanilla marriage. Passionate and wild - sensual and docile.... I'm always eager to please. Submission is my passion. I am not a 24/7 slave however. My interest is in real time -not just online.

Exploration has been intense, exciting and life changing for me! Each experience breathes new life into me. I always walk away with something positive.

I desire the power YOU have over me - both mentally and physically. There's nothing more erotic and humbling than a DOM with strong intuition as to how I might serve HIM best. I continue to find extreme and often insatiable pleasure in "vanilla" as well. Further experience and being mentored is my focus. Ultimately, I would like to find a lifetime partner with shared interests of vanilla, kink and BDSM. When in a committed relationship, I am completely faithful to my partner. That's a given.

My belief is that a solid D/s relationship would be one in which partners interact as two equal halves of a whole. Neither is less than the other - their roles are just different. Together, they become ONE in a mirror. [if255 1]

My Ideal Person:
I must start with a couple of limits so as to not misuse your time. I migrate towards those age 50 or below. Perhaps it's unfair of me to place this restriction upon myself. It has much to do with my energy level. I enjoy a little "down time" once in a while though. While I do pleasure in the company of those who are like minded (socially), I reserve myself for one on one. I'm open to considering other options once a solid D/s bond has developed. I've learned to never say never.

I wish for a DOM who is CONFIDENT, single, creative, nurturing, trustful, trustworthy, playful, experienced, protective, loving, gentle, sincere, reliable, respectful and firm. I've no desire to be one of many. I do understand I would have to earn this status. Perhaps this is an unrealistic wish. I like to think not. Straightforward communication is a great place to start. I assure YOU I will always be up front and honest - brutally honest if need be.

YOUR guidance will be greatly rewarded as I open myself to YOU completely. I weaken at the thought of the piercing look in YOUR eyes and the comforting sound of YOUR voice...

To those of you involved in marriage/relationship - I can't go there.


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