I've completed my move and am now residing in Southern California, yay!! But now I am looking for a room to rent in the south Long Beach area...or a possible live in situation?
Welcome... Real person here, please be real too. What is 'real'? In my case, it means a real person with family and a job and varied interests in and outside of the bdsm/Leather communities. Into bdsm/Leather in real time, not cyber. Its more than play but its play. Its more than sex but its sex. Its spiritual and awesome. Depends on the day. I also take it to mean down to earth, aware, into learning about each other in all aspects, NOT just kink wise.
Im looking for friends from all walks of lives. Im also looking for more, much more from certain special types of friends, male and female. Outside of BDSM I love fine dining, movies, concerts and other fun events. Ive traveled a bit. I love to read, mostly fiction. I do not smoke tobacco ::smile:: and highly dislike tobacco smoke.
Ive been involved in BDSM deeply since 2000. I identify primarily as a Dominant but I am technically a switch. Its a 90/10 thing Id say. Its not often I find a man I want to bottom to and I dont submit or bottom to women. I am a very open minded person and am willing to discuss most anything. What I would actually DO may be different, but even then I am pretty adventurous but for sure no minors or scat.
I am poly and am in negotiations with one submissive male. I seek to continue building My family to the benefit of each and all of us.
The male dominants Ive enjoyed being with were either Masters skilled in the deep spirituality of a flogging or caning, or were very into kinky sex bdsm. My body type is for those who like "meat" on their women. I am fat yet muscular and curvy. I've been told I have a lovely ass ::smile:: but yes there is more of it than less.
I like being in control. With submissives I have a loving teacher type of dominance. A maternal energy of sorts, but masculine too I have been told LOL confused yet? I entered into this lifestyle through an online male persona Id created for myself. Shortly after I found the real world of BDSM and began seeking mentors and training. Ive learned much of what I know from the pansexual and gay Leather communities in Southern California.
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My Ideal Person:
What am I looking for in a person? Like minded folks. Intelligent people. Individuals who think outside of the box. People who aren't into labeling or pigeonholing individuals. Open minded, friendly, glass-is-half-full, fun, kinky people. I like creative people, people with a sense of humor and joy in having fun. I prefer non-smokers or only very light smokers; I do not smoke tobacco ::smile:: at all.
Im looking for friends from all walks of lives. Im also looking for more, much more from certain special types of friends.
I seek domestic service and personal assistant service. I am also seeking more personal service such as massage, pediures and manicures, and similar. I also seek more personal service, yes sexual too. It depends on the individual and what skills and attitudes they bring to the table. I am open to part time service
but prefer 24/7 whether you are available to serve full time or part time. Male and female welcome. Questions welcome too!
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