i really don't know what to write. In few words, i'm a masochist that doesn't easily submit, by this i means that i feel submissive only toward certain people. What am i doing here? Blog, making friends, learn, share. i don't have a formula to BDSM cause my reaction to each person is different, and while i do have defined limits, my boundaries change depending on the person i'm with. Right now i'm not actively looking to start a relationship...but as the saying goes... never say never.
redundancy........................learning to fly...
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My Ideal Person:
If you contact me,please remember i'm not your sub,i expect to be treated with the respect accorded to any stranger. Say what you mean, i take friendship seriously,so if you are only looking for erotic exchange be honest about it. Polyamory is fine,cheating is not. i rarely check the 'winks' so if you want to talk email me.thanks.
"It doesn't interest me what you do for a living. I want to know what you ache for, and if you dare to dream of meeting your heart's longing.
It doesn't interest me how old you are. I want to know if you will risk looking like a fool for love, for your dream, for the adventure of being alive.
It doesn't interest me what planets are squaring your moon. I want to know if you have touched the center of your own sorrow, if you have been opened by life's betrayals or have become shriveled and closed from fear of further pain!I want to know if you can sit with pain, mine or your own, without moving to hide it or fade it, or fix it.
I want to know if you can be with joy, mine or your own, if you can dance with wildness and let the ecstasy fill you to the tips of your fingers and toes without cautioning us to be careful, to be realistic, to remember the limitations of being human.
It doesn't interest me if the story you are telling me is true. I want to know if you can disappoint another to be true to yourself; if you can bear the accusation of betrayal and not betray your own soul; if you can be faithless and therefore trustworthy.
I want to know if you can see beauty even when it's not pretty, every day,and if you can source your own life from its presence.
I want to know if you can live with failure, yours and mine, and still stand on the edge of the lake and shout to the silver of the full moon, “Yes!”
It doesn't interest me who you know or how you came to be here. I want to know if you will stand in the center of the fire with me and not shrink back.
It doesn't interest me where or what or with whom you have studied. I want to know what sustains you, from the inside, when all else falls away.
I want to know if you can be alone with yourself and if you truly like the company you keep in the empty moments.
by Oriah Mountain Dreamer i do not accept network invitation if i don't know you,so please don't ask
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