I am a passionate, articulate, and devoted woman. You'll notice I didn't say 'slave', or 'submissive'. What I identify as in the privacy of my relationships or dalliances is not the business of the casual observer. My vulnerability is not something to be shared in a chat room. I love to laugh, I love to flirt, and I love a good debate just as much. I am strong-willed and intelligent. I am sweet, conscientious, sarcastic and compassionate. I'm not a blank slate and I don't need you to define me. I am just precisely who I am. No more and no less.
"If I am not I, who will be? ~ Henry David Thoreau"
I'm a sucker for a sense of humor, intelligence and what I like to call "creative brutality". If you don't have annnnnnny of those qualities.. why don't you save us both the headache and find someone who wants what you've got to offer *S*
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My Ideal Person:
I have what I desire, I have what I need, I have what I crave. I am so very lucky to be accepted for all that I am. I am devoted to One, I seek nothing but friendship, conversation and the exchange of ideas in this place.
Let me REITERATE. I'm married, and when I use that term, I mean COMPLETELY DEVOTED to my Husband and UNAVAILABLE for anything beyond some flirting and some fun. He is the LOVE OF MY LIFE. He doesn't mind me fooling about here because he knows what my priorities are. I tell you right now, I don't want your collar, I don't want your undying love, I don't want your pretty words or promises. I have what I need. I've been lucky enough to spend my life with the most amazing man in the world for almost 2 decades. I intend to keep at it for the rest of my days.
I've been asked "why are you here if you're not looking" by too many people. All I can say is that perhaps my idea of 'looking' and your idea of 'looking' differ. VASTLY. I like to keep myself open to the possibility of meeting those special people that make my breath catch. I have always valued the opportunity to get to know amazing and unusual people. That is no different now. I offer it all up to the will of the universe.. aided by my drive and my passion ~*S*~
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