I am and will be addressed as Mistress. I am also, very blunt and straight forward, enjoying an intelligent conversation, but always commanding respect. I am not into playing misleading games, so please save the b/s sessions for someone who has time to entertain it. I notice that there are a lot of "online subs" here. I use that term to define those that do not participate in RT(real time) activities. I can not make this any clearer, than this...I Do Not Participate In On Line Games! If you are serious and want to be trained, then send me a message. If you think that you already know it all, then skip this page and try to top someone else from the bottom. Yes distance is an actual problem, while dealing within the lifestyle.
Being submissive, does not have anything to do with your intelligence level. It takes a strong person to Dominate and an even stronger person to submit. I never demand, but always command the upmost respect. I will never physically beat any one into submission, that is a choice that one makes on his/her own. It is not about feeding your physical need to be tortured; it is about feeding your mental need to be tormented. When I capture your mind, the rest of your body is sure to follow.
There is always a choice to be made, always choose that which is more beneficial to both parties involved. If you have limits, make them known from the beginning. Never use your Domme/Dom, as an excuse for any "situations" that may have occurred in your past/present services. In order to grow, limits have to be pushed and/or put to the test. Do not place yourself into a situation that you may never recover from.
This lifestyle has many variations and avenues that it covers. For some, it is strictly about being sexual or fulfilling fantasies. For others, it is about testing their levels of pain tolerancy. Also included would be the mental voyage...when one is taken to a higher plain emotionally, mentally and spiritually. For the rest, it may be a combination of all of these, plus more. Whatever your fetish, likes, desires, needs, wants, curiosities, etc...Be happy with who you are and how you feel. You are not alone in your quest!
Judgement is not yours to make, for your life (or lack there of) is an open vessel, left to high scrutiny as well. Portraying your boorish nature, will not be rewarded with words. I control what "gets under my skin"; and know that your conveyance of dislikes, would not even make the top 100 on my list of bothersome acts. If you have "SINCERE" questions, then I will be more than happy to answer them. If you want to display your infantile mannerisms, then do us both a favor and refrain from extending any physical activity by typing to Me.
I DO NOT participate in the following: anything dealing with children, animals, scatting, golden flow, knife play, blood, or permanent scars. I do not like to see men dressed as women. I do not believe in forced fem nor forced bi...
I see it this way! You have limits that you can set prior to any session with any Domme. The only way that it can be forced...Is to tie you up and have another man ram you in from the back. Other than that, it's something that you are searching for...which again says, that it is not being forced. To each his/her own...it's not My preference.
If you are into any of the above dislikes that have been mentioned... then it would be in your best interest to save your font. Believe Me...My response will not be by any means "nice"...and for those that have spoken with me; they can confirm, that I am rather easy to converse with.
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My Ideal Person:
I am looking for someone that is sincere and honest in his submission. I do not entertain ignorance of any kind. If you can not hold an intelligent conversation, do U/us both a favor and save your font. If you are someone just looking for fun or a one night stand, again...we revert back to that saving of the font thing that was mention earlier. I like and want to know your interest up front. I do not have a problem with answering questions, as long as you are presenting them in a sincere fashion. I realize that A/all of U/us started off as novice, therefore I do not hold that against anyone. I like subs that are into foot fetishes, oral and ass worship, cbt, nt, massages, houseboys, servants, caters, and strap-on play. If you are a female, then you will know that if you send Me a message and are NOT looking to only be a maid, foot stool or a slut for My male friends, then again..."save your font". I am not bi anything. No, I do not switch. No, there is nothing on God's green earth that will make me play subservient to anyone...(laughing because many have tried); So please do yourself a favor...and stop trying. If you have read this in it's entirety and none of the above pertain to you...Send Me an email.
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