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doingitall4yu 66M
321 posts
7/21/2020 11:52 pm

I have met 4 people from this site, but I have enjoyed incredibly sexy email exchanges with many, many more! I have had sex with three of the four, anal & oral with three of the four. I enjoyed the experiences & hope to do it again! I would love to hear about your encounters, especially with the woman! You are submissive, correct? Very interesting story you have to tell! BTW: you have the cutest little bare butt! It is adorable! Long may you blog!

Serve me!! It is what you crave! jdxafn at hot....


rosaenaluin 65F
10841 posts
7/22/2020 1:28 am

Alt is i think, more USA, oriented.
I had some mail contact, but after one or two message exchange it is clear, all they want is kinky fuckery - when they want it- how they want it.

The shopping list "doms".
The _do me_ doms.
They seek a fetish dispenser, never a real person, with witch they have to interact, on a human level.

I even believe, they are not any more capable of doing so….
They are SOOO stuck "in their role"... Dont know anymore, how to behave as a human, in a interaction with a submissive person.
Scary shit!

That one contact, was also a play / bedroom dom, this one, had also interest in mé, as a person.
So, we had one scene and then he gaslighted me... ignored all messages..
Was totally out of communication.
Just an other emotional wrack


rosaenaluin 65F
10841 posts
7/22/2020 1:31 am

Oh, i am not here, for some kinky play, only.
I want and need the Power/ Authority Transfer, connection first.

Without thát, there is no trust and safety.
Just a sexual game, until orgasm.


TyTightly_ 64M
2 posts
7/22/2020 1:32 am

I have met many , many people from this site . A lot I still have as friends. I would estimate probably 200 hundred over the 16 years or so. I enjoy meeting lots of people and have been first BDSM community contact for more than a few. Two of those meetings have resulted in BDSM and sexual relationships , the one of those lasting over 8 years , so far .


janey_robbins 65T  
268 posts
7/22/2020 3:01 am

I've met quite a few people from here and done perverted things with most of them Best of all I met Master Randy, his wife Lady L and my wonderful Mistress Kay because of being on alt


Aislin 39F  
8605 posts
7/22/2020 3:45 am

I just met scottfree2016 yesterday so yeah, several for me also having to travel all the way to Norway. I am indeed a Meet and Play Whore. But I do not have sex with them.

best wishes, have fun and play safe.


I am aroused by my own darkness and there is no cure.


brandygirasol 54T
9369 posts
7/22/2020 5:06 am

Yes I have met many men from this site- mostly long term relationships- some one time flings..... I learned early on to cut thru the BS like men not reading profiles before hitting on me- nonsense with some guys afraid to talk on the phone and get aquainted- inexperianced confused LOSERS unsure about what they want I dont waste time with- because they will infect my own positive attitude and bring me down if I allow it .... Never am I on here looking for a new stranger to hook up with every week I dont operate that way ONLY people who never hook up imagine those of us who do date operate like that


gafferh 68M
308 posts
7/22/2020 5:09 am

Have chatted with quite a few and met a few of them. I've enjoyed sex with a couple.


MissJasline 61T
84 posts
7/22/2020 6:12 am

I've put 2-4 but can't remember exactly how many and from which sites specifically. I've been on the scene now for over 20 years and used a number of sites where I've met people (InformedConsent, Collarme, etc).

The meets have been a mix of men and women, Dom and sub, sexual and S/M play. As the saying goes, variety is the spice of life.

P.S. Don't agree with the comments that this site is mainly USA. I'm UK.

Curved Air: You, you're only what you think you might be, I am only what you think I am


drmgirl622 68F  
25884 posts
7/22/2020 6:26 am

I have one friend I spend girls night with every week plus one that visits annually for laughs and relaxation.......there are quite a few others that i speak with by phone.


_M2_ 53M

7/22/2020 6:30 am

I have met a few from Alt. One turned out to be sexual and she lived with me for a period of time. The others were became good friends with no sexual contact.


BostonBoi 55M
17245 posts
7/22/2020 7:01 am

I've met 6 people in person over my on-again/off-again time on this site. Each and every one of them was so very nice. Only one was for a relationship. The rest were just visiting Boston for one reason or another and we met up so I could play tour guide.

I've had many off-site relationships form with people I've met blogging...email, camera, text, social media, etc. Lots of great people here if one can get through all the proliferating fakes.

"In a time of universal deceit - telling the truth is a revolutionary act."
---George Orwell


Kitkatshadow 57F

7/22/2020 7:37 am

I met a Dom from this site who lives in England, he came to South Africa for 4 months to visit with me, but things went south lol


JoElspanstp 70M

7/22/2020 9:36 am

    Quoting Kitkatshadow:
    I met a Dom from this site who lives in England, he came to South Africa for 4 months to visit with me, but things went south lol
He went to Antarctica?


Humiliatingwomen 66M
7 posts
7/22/2020 10:18 am

I have been on alt for 10+ years. I have met several and spoken to literally hundreds. Of those I have met I have had 1 long term relationship (5+years) and met most of the others more than once. Only 1 has been a platonic meet. I'm only interested in real meets and of the hundreds I have chatted to at least 95% have been complete time wasters. The alt concept is very good, but the time wasters and wannabees sadly make it very difficult to connect with people on this site.


iwill44 42M
121 posts
7/22/2020 11:21 am

i been looking for a beautiful LT Women to serve for the rest of my life . still can not find committed to it


protection192 69M  
455 posts
7/22/2020 12:08 pm

I feel that if you are a single guy your chances on meeting any one is nill to none


Kitkatshadow 57F

7/22/2020 12:15 pm

No, i kicked his ass back to England, what a disaster it was


1uncommondom 77M

7/22/2020 1:48 pm

I think the more interesting poll would be how many we've met from this site compared to other sites and the amount of time given. While I've met substantially more people from Alt and I find the quality of the meetings comparable to Fetlife and Collarspace people but the amount of time I spend on Alt is comparatively more as well. I met several people from Adult friend finders and they were all fake.
I was also part of the underground BDSM scenes in N.Y., Harrisburg and Baltimore and a lot of those folks are on Alt and FL.


JoElspanstp 70M

7/22/2020 1:51 pm

    Quoting Kitkatshadow:
    No, i kicked his ass back to England, what a disaster it was
He left High and Dry?


lighthouse4297 56F
1680 posts
7/22/2020 7:57 pm

Hello, Yes I have met people in person from this site. Smiles L


sidvicious13 61M
138 posts
7/22/2020 8:09 pm

I have met more than five people from Alt, but no one in recent years. I have been on Alt since 2001, under a few different names. In the first six years that I was on Alt, I met a few people, but nobody in the past eight years. But then, there used to be a lot more people on Alt. I truly believe that if Alt management were to get rid of every fake profile, every scammer, and every profile that has not logged on in the past three years, there would be maybe four or five dozen real live women on this site.


slaveRam4MsM 42M
177 posts
7/23/2020 10:25 am

Here lot of fake profile..


Dwtp 60M
27 posts
7/23/2020 11:53 pm

Seems there is no one in my area, with my interests.


IsoOnlineSub7 65M/56F
1540 posts
7/24/2020 9:54 am

I have met several people on this site over the years. More years ago than now regrettably. But still meet someone every now and then. In fact I met my submissive wife on this site about 20 years ago. So anything is possible.


olelude 62M
14 posts
7/25/2020 1:22 am

Im here for some time now, Most people is from Uk or Us , Not many from Norway here and they are few, So i have never meet anyone from here,


Luv2193333 64M
4 posts
7/25/2020 10:43 am

over several years i've met a few people, before meeting had to feel some connection & trust between us and guess i got lucky there was no bad apples.:


Frodo96 59M
2 posts
7/25/2020 2:33 pm

In one year, I have met one M/F couple from Alt who happened to visit. We met, had drinks and a very nice session. I’d say it was unexpected but chemistry aligned.


albanynycouple51 62M/58F
11 posts
7/26/2020 6:10 am

yes have met others as well got hook up with many hot swing clubs with really nice dungeons to play in.def lots of real kinksters out there on site that meets n shows up.lots of no shows and bs profiles got to weeds thru but they on here for sure


colorred2 44M

7/26/2020 7:12 pm

It is difficult to meet someone on this page, since there are few who connect close to my region, greetings!


wky4fun2 55M

7/26/2020 8:22 pm

Not much luck on alt. few talkers and fakes getting ppl to meet in the area you live may be a challenge now on ALT.com ive had several meets and repeats


xntrick 59M
2927 posts
7/27/2020 2:31 am

When I think back on it, I've met 4 people from this site. Two of them I played with on the same night at a club called Tina's place. The 3rd was just after domestic discipline and the fourth was a gem of a submissive who brought me a cane and brownies the first time we played, those were the good old days.


Luxxint 58M/52F
2 posts
7/27/2020 8:33 am

Met several men on here and on Friend finder,,One night stands with married men seems to be norm.


pickmeout2 58M
9 posts
7/27/2020 10:03 am

I have been on this site for a very long time I have met in person and played with 6 Female subs I collared 2 and trained 3. But because I am no longer a paid member I can not read emails and the IM doesn't work. So it is hard to communicate..


sanpan222 84M
2 posts
7/27/2020 11:13 am

I think a.l.t. was a lot better when you could meet someone on line and if you wanted to explore more with that person, before meeting you could private cam.......now you cant and its hard to cam when you want to be private and have the person your caming with, be your only viewer....was a lot more fun back then''''sanpan222


ScottFromJax 43M
2 posts
7/27/2020 3:14 pm

I've yet to communicate with a real profile yet that isn't a scam. Oh wait. There was 1 that emailed but it went nowhere


pascalv69 52M
5 posts
7/28/2020 4:20 pm

not met anyone, but I've only been there for a week, and had two contact by message from england, one who asked for 150 euros in neoticket to be submitted lol, I denounced her but still there, and the other said submissive, but grumbles and denigrate so I cut off the conversation, I'm looking for seriousness with a submissive woman so I'm careful; -) (I'm from Belgium so not obvious on this site or there are more USA and England)


CBTMIKE 80M

7/28/2020 5:12 pm

I;ve et 3 and have served each of them for a couple of years becoming more and more of a cum hungry slut as well as pain slut


curiousgeek1 48M
15 posts
7/29/2020 9:56 pm

Most of the people who respond to my profile are scammers. I can tell right away because they tend to be super hot women who usually live far away and who demand money within the first few messages. I have had more success with FetLife and AshleyMadison. Although those encounters weren't great, at least I actually got to meet real people.


GiveMeBoundaries 66M
126 posts
7/30/2020 9:10 pm

i have been on this site for about three years, i have chatted on IM and via E-mail with a couple dozen and phone with 9. i have met three in person, had so-so sex with one of those, but he wasn't the Dom that he claimed to be. i am currently involved in a D/s relationship with another of those three, for 1yr and 9mos now. i have not met nor interacted in "real life" with anyone from any other site.


Diplomatras53 70M

7/31/2020 2:20 pm

Unquestionably the quality of real profiles have diminished over the years and the scammers have multiplied. It is a shame.


Eliz3beth 32F
2 posts
7/31/2020 9:38 pm

Am hoping to meet someone here just to have fun rough sex


Eliz3beth 32F
2 posts
7/31/2020 9:53 pm

Hoping to meet someone here just to have fun rough sex


protection192 69M  
455 posts
8/1/2020 10:01 am

I have been on this site for many years. I have been trying to meet woman and couples. I have not met anyone. I figure my chances on meeting anyone is ZERO. I am old and no one wants to even bother with me. I feel that a BUTT UGLY FEMALE WITH TITS THAT IS DOWN TO THE FLOOR has better chances to meet some one better than me.


Bumtingler 64M
63 posts
8/2/2020 3:09 pm

Yes....met 4 or 5 from here, normally after a quite in depth chat. In all cases it lasted for around 6 to 8 months. You do get a lot of time wasters, but there are real people here!


lindaxx69xx 69F
19 posts
8/4/2020 2:22 am

I find nearly all here to be all talk and no action.


nudger01 69M/43F

8/5/2020 1:51 am

My wife and I met up with a uk/thai couple in Pattaya, Thailand. Had a meal and a few drinks but they were,nt our type. Still had an enjoyable evening though.


Maitrevaal 68M
201 posts
8/6/2020 7:52 am

Hello, I met 2 subs in reality. And one is still My sub now.


MyLipsAtHerHips 65M  
12 posts
8/6/2020 6:00 pm

I travel with work and hope to meet Women here


DrKinkmanGYN 70M
92 posts
8/8/2020 7:00 pm

I've met quite a few women from this site and other similar sites (like AdultFriendFinder) and we always had sex when we finally met. Getting to know them online is key before I meet them. It's easy to tell who is serious and who just wants to talk kinky and just fantasize after chatting with them for a while. I don't like endless chats, but I find that finding out who's real and serious saves a lot of disappointments.
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Dreamcatcher__ 87M
7020 posts
8/9/2020 3:13 pm

I've met between five and ten people from this site, but nobody who lived close enough to become regularly involved with. Most of them came to spend some time with me at my country place. My long-term relationships have all begun off of this site.


thickmeatwillly 50M

8/9/2020 9:09 pm

I've met 5 women from ALT.


subjim63 60M
414 posts
8/10/2020 1:19 am

have not met one in the real world. even ones who live close to me refuse to meet me.. their loss.i have contacted many and sent a lot of gift cards to some but have gotten nothing for my trouble. i have commited to be with one and until we get together i will stay commited to her but there are too many fakes and scammers .


MissLoveParty1 42F  
66 posts
8/11/2020 7:57 am

I would like to meet people in real life because I have noticed many hot members sharing my interests. The problem is that almost everyone lives too far!


BaronKrulis 50M
15 posts
8/11/2020 12:21 pm

I've only been amble to meet 1 from this site. It's got a lot to do with the paywalls and point system here. As the years pass this site, and it's sister sites, have become impossible to connect without paying to.


ADomsPaean 71M

8/11/2020 4:34 pm

While I have indicated that I have met several alt members, it should be noted that I have not met anyone recently. That is to say, I have met no one since the pandemic came upon us. And until the pandemic goes away, chances are rather bleak of me meeting anyone any time soon.


UR_Fantazee 27F  
7057 posts
8/12/2020 10:43 am

.
Talked to him - met him - played with him - fell for him - moved in with him.

All that took 4 years.

Joining Alt's the best decision I ever made. xx


"People who think they know everything are a great annoyance to those of us who do."


SilverDominant 66M/64F

8/12/2020 1:05 pm

I have met several people from ALT.Com including one woman who became my slave for 6 1/2 years. We traveled our country and Europe together. We even attended Burning man 6 years in a row. She asked to be released to meet a Love interest in Scotland.

SilverDominant


WhiteKnight6969 57M
6 posts
8/13/2020 7:15 am

i have met with 2 from this site. 1 lasted for 6 months of fantastic meetings


Funtimezahead154 27M

8/13/2020 7:13 pm

No and it pretty empty compared to add.


Rattenfaengerxxx 58M
143 posts
8/14/2020 6:40 am

Mostly Fakes and Scammers, but also good contacts to people with the same interests.
But for people who are looking for a new slavegirl absolutely not suitable.


masterdavid7845 61M
1 post
8/15/2020 7:32 pm

hello
Yes I have met several in real life and some of them turned into long term relationships. However those long termers decided they didn't want to remain in the lifestyle and asked Me to turn vanilla. That is impossible for Me and find vanilla women nice but boring especially when I become verbal in sexual play. Have chatted ts, tg and had a transgender slave for a month or so. Now I am straight again until I see all those hot loops on social media of tgs and ts's. I prefer long term since pump and dump does not appeal to Me as a transmitter or receiver.


PleasingYouAgain 63M
18 posts
8/16/2020 8:52 am

I have met one person and I see her on occasion. We have a good friendship


Shalacon 60M
8 posts
8/17/2020 2:28 am

I have found 4 of my slaves off of this site so far and the people I have met off of here have been great . But there are those you do have to watch out for if you don't feel safe meeting them than don't .


MSTRNYNJ 61M
23 posts
8/18/2020 3:05 pm

I've been on ALT for many years, close to 20. I've met quite a few women over that time, and a few couples to Dom the wife. Sex with most of the women, but not all. A few one time meets with no chemistry too. One long term D/s relationship with a lovely bi-sub, over 4 years. More active in the beginning. As time went on, too many fake and scam profiles to weed through here !! Still interested in meeting though, enjoy everyone !!


SweetDreamCovid 54M

8/21/2020 11:48 am

I haven't. I am a submissive male. And Dommes here normally asks me to cease all communication with other people here. Then, starts to submit to them. All of them demand to peg me. But I am not in to this. So, they stop talking to me.

Or ask me to send money to some money to buy gift for me. But the problem is the bank account name is a man. She explained it is her's female slave boyfriend. I asked her why I can't send money to her. She said her business account cannot accept less than 10,000 pounds. I never heard any bank account that set limit like this.


NastyDomDaddy4u 56M

8/22/2020 6:37 am

I have met lots of great people from here


bimom4taboo 53F
1981 posts
8/22/2020 8:19 am

i did once and was very upset. he wasn't what he said he was. so i got out of there fast


liketo111 61M

9/19/2020 10:58 pm

I'd sure love to meet anyone on here.


normansilk1983 53M
37 posts
9/23/2020 10:56 am

met a lot back in 2000's. Now in the 2020's most seem more hesitant to meet in person. Lots of online sex with people overseas from this site


solelicker12133 71M
24 posts
9/24/2020 1:18 pm

I have met a couple of people here. One, for coffee and one for some fun (and a real fun follow up)


useandhurtme 59M

10/7/2020 5:18 pm

I've drifted in and out of here for nearly 20 years. Never met any one. Unless if learning about Chateau Jade in Bangkok counts. They were clever enough to have the individual Dommes place ads. That led me to 2 awesome visits, sessions of 12 hours each with some of the most beautiful women I could ever hope to meet (I'm hot for Asians).


Dickfaceboy 48M
6 posts
10/11/2020 4:28 pm

I have met 3 or 4 on here, I did not bed any of them. They were great friends till I lost track of them


mrzia_ 73M

10/17/2020 3:40 pm

It is a crap shoot no matter how you look at it


DeviantSage 47M
1515 posts
10/18/2020 2:50 pm

I've met quite a few from Alt - and now I'm back for more.

Cake & Sodomy

~ the willing since 1993~

The World is Mine.


BigMerv22 53M  
172 posts
11/16/2022 2:42 am

In person, none. I have talked with three or four on the phone, and there are a few that I chat with off site. I really enjoy the people that I chat with off-site whether it's about sex or actual real life stuff. They are the people who make what I do on-site worth while.



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