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rosaenaluin 65F
9837 posts
4/21/2018 2:06 am
munch!


It was great, i ve been to the munch in R-dam,
it was great,

you, i, women, were not eyed as sex object.

but as real persons, with wich you can have a real life conversation!
have some fun.
imaging that!

It was great, most munches i have been, are rather small,
15, max 19 people

This was big! real big!
The pub owner and personal all know what was going on,
so relaxed, to be able to talk about all kind of aspects of BDSM, the lifestyle and life in general.
Great!

The only thing to do for me, now, is the arrange a sleeping place..
because, well, i had to go back rather early,
otherwise i could have tried to sleep at the train station.... missing my last train!

There is this world wide organisation, couchsurfing,

Everyone can become a member, without any exchange of money,
You can become a registered member, you pay some small fee,
this is for when you want to travel low budget... and meet local people
for instance....
Or just dont like the impersonal of a hotel. the professional "politeness"...

SO, i have to finish my registration for that organisation.

Most munches i have been to, most men there eye you as meat;
is she some fuck piece?
can i do my tricks on her?

It feels very unsafe for me.
I dont feel at ease at all.
Predator behaviour, so disgusting, so nasty.

Especially when the cornerstone of all BDSM actions are based on;
SAFE, SANE AND CONSENSUAL!

There is almost no interest in the person, they probably see only fuckmeat.

Sure, there were some of those, around too, yesterday
BUT, they were a minority and you recognise them on the spot.

Yesterday, one of such person was in the group with wich i mingle
that man...
I dont think he is able to tell anybody today how i looked liked,
what the colour of my hair is, or my eye colour, or what i was wearing....

because his eyes were glued to my black lace décolleté.....
I cant help it, but feeling very dirty, when men behave like that.
Ignore and block!

So many beautiful people, saw some real attractive men too!

I found a place for me.

Why does BDSM, "the scene", attract soo many nutcases?
un-be- lie-va-ble.

rosaenaluin 65F
10779 posts
4/21/2018 2:13 am

It was great!


drmgirl622 68F  
25821 posts
4/21/2018 7:50 am

I am so glad you enjoyed your time......with so many nice people the nutcases can just mingle with each other


rosaenaluin 65F
10779 posts
4/21/2018 10:08 am

Miss_Sixty,

When there are so many crazy like me, crazy, he 'nutcases are in the minority.!


rosaenaluin 65F
10779 posts
4/21/2018 10:10 am

taximan,

I will think about this, the next time i go visit that munch,
who knows?
i might find my screw.


rosaenaluin 65F
10779 posts
4/23/2018 2:09 pm

sub_nouveau,
thank you for your reaction,

that is absolutely true!
bdsm equals easy lay without any responsibility for what ever happens,
is the vanilla mindset on bdsm games.

versus the LTR thing, wich in my eyes is only natural since the amount of trust needed between the two or more partners.... in the relation.

It was great!
So happy, to finally have found this group; serious people having fun and act like adults all at the same time!



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