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Posted:Feb 18, 2018 8:38 am
Last Updated:Mar 15, 2022 4:09 pm
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Don't be shy, and I understand that your writing, me, viewing my profile, or flirting with me, isn't showing interest in me beyond conversation or confession.

Knowing what makes people tick sexually is something I'm genuinely interested in, and have been since I was at an age most wouldn't think one would be interested in such things. I'm a teacher, a confidant, confessor, and an explorer. I am not a poser just looking for jack-off fantasies and cycbersex, nor wasting anyone's time. Oh, yeah... I'm Dom, too!

What's taboo to one person isn't to another, so I really don't judge. However, I will admit that sometimes it does give me a good chuckle when it's something that most people would think of as vanilla.

Taboo isn't just about specific sex acts. It's also about breaking cultural norms and expectations. Job, race, religion, social status, family values, culture, etc... It all adds to the spice.

Very interested in hearing from subs & slaves that come from conservative backgrounds, especially cultures where even relatively vanilla things are taboo.

All levels of experience are fine. Moreover, I have an genuine and deep appreciation for those new to all this and looking for advice or just to talk. I won't assume it means you're interested in me, or (worse) that you're talking to me gives me some claim on you in any way, unlike so many on here. I'm sure you've run into more than your fair share of those idiots already. You don't need me adding to your frustration.

Mature women are always appreciated. Never will I understand "doms" that throw a perfectly good sub/slave away because of her age, when their attitude and their identity as a sub/slave/slut/____ is long ingrained into their being.

There is one sticking point I have regarding ages listed here: Be honest about it. I get wanting to shave a year or three off (or for the young but mature, wanting to tack a few on to be taken seriously) but it's just a number, not an attitude or handicap. Some friendly advice: If you're going to shave off years, keep it believable. Because if your profile says you're 26, and your pic is of you at 40, you look like shit for a 26 year old.


I am married, and she knows I am here. We used to play with BiF's and for the right woman that might be possible again with the right person that's patient and can follow my lead and instruction. But, you will have to be patient with her, as she was hurt many times in the past and is very much "once bitten, twice (or ten times) shy". This would not be for some quick thing, but a long term relationship that starts as a friendship. And any of that is far from a priority right now.

This sounds cliche, but I am spiritual but not religious. Since I was very, very young I've had experiences with the metaphysical and paranormal.

I'm smart, kind of a smart-ass with a sarcastic (but never mean) and twisted sense of humor, pragmatic but positive, artistic and creative, love music (hard rock/metal, blues, country mostly), NPR junkie, liberal, play guitar well enough to please me and still know I'm not great at it, love to grill on the weekend with family and friends. I don't tolerate bigotry and deliberate ignorance well.

Better in life to have a philosophy than an ideology. A philosophy is flexible. It changes and evolves with experience and facts. An ideology is rigid and brittle, and requires one to bend fact to meet their ideology. Too much bending and things break. Too rigid and things don't just break, but shatter.

Lately I've noticed that a lot of subs/slave on here are looking for a Dom with a Harley and I have one of those. There no feeling like being in the wind. If there's a babe on back, so much the better!

Romance and passion and love are not diametrically opposed to each other! It is preferable!

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Sorry, no pics of me on here. Small town, small minds, big mouth, so discretion is required. If we get to know and trust each other, then maybe we can exchange pics. I just find it hypocritical that so many with no pics of their own get on my case about it. The only time I judge harshly is when people use pics of others as their own. But if a pic shows something you're into, and you're honest about it not being you, by all means share!

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I'm as Dom as a sub requires. If you need to start slow and light and progress from there, that's fine. If you're looking for someone that can dish out a great deal of control, punishment, pain, et al, I can do that, too. I have NO problem dealing out the discipline needed to the degree required and wanted.

There are too many "doms" on here that think they're God's gift and entitled to treat a a sub any way they wish from the get-go and that's just not so. I am NOT that kind of Dom. Screaming and being a misogynist does NOT make one a Dom, either. Having a leather chaps or some handcuffs doesn't make one dom, either.

I especially enjoy, and specialize in, transforming a woman into the sub she wants to be. I also like a sub/slave that anyone can look at and just know that there's something overtly sexual and more about her, but she shouldn't look like a . If you want to be a slut, fine, but you're going to be a classier-looking slut than some trailer trashing-looking ho. Bimbofication isn't my thing.
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