This is not a dating service. This group is for people serious about the lifesytle and want to learn more about the lifestyle in a safe and sane matter. Yes we know people will meet at clubs and munch's who both happen to be on this list but we are saying people posting and asking questions are not to be viewed as easy targets to chase after for play.

Subs will be matched up with Subs, and Doms will be matched up with Doms. Significant others of the mentor will NOT be allowed to play/scene with mentee.