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Idenitfying , email grabbers and such on alt 18/4/2006
As of late, alt seems to be inundated with , prostitutes
and people grabbing personal email info for spamming.
A few tips we've found to be helpful and all based on
the id. Don't bother with these. They are a waste of
time.
- All are standard members. If you see someone with a paid
membership, none of the following apply.
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- Seem ...
0 Commentaires, 232 Consultations,
15 Votes
,5.43 Score
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expectations 13/4/2006
As a reminder for those like myself;
Don't get ahead of yourself with a new relationship,
and don't have high expectations for at least a month,
until everything eases down.
0 Commentaires, 192 Consultations,
0 Votes
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Why Do You Suppose ??? 7/4/2006
Why Do You Suppose We Do Some Of The Things
That We Do??? You Can State What Would Be Considered To Be
The Obvious...But I Take Pleasure From Hearing Your Most
Thought Of And Deepest Feelings.
Enlighten Me!!!
...
2 Commentaires, 93 Consultations,
2 Votes
,5.20 Score
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Am I A SWITCH Or A DOM ??? 6/4/2006
Based Off Of What You May Have Read About/From
Me...Ms.Kitty...How Do You Really Perceive Me??? As A
Dom Or A Sub??? I Profess To Being A Switch, With A Submissive
Side Of Course But What Do YOU Think Would Fit Me Best...Hence,
The Reason I'm A Switch...I Enjoy It All From Both Sides...Though,
Whatever Responses I Receive Will Not Change This...Simply
Want To Know How I May ...
0 Commentaires, 41 Consultations,
0 Votes
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Simply A Little Insight... 6/4/2006
I'm Looking For A MASTER To Give Me
A Few Tips On Being A MASTER...I'm Quite Dominant And
My Partner Is Passive...I Want To Use This To Both Of Our
Advantages...LOL ...
0 Commentaires, 31 Consultations,
0 Votes
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Is There Something Wrong With A Sexually Free Spirited Woman??? 6/4/2006
In the past, I've been faced with
a dilemma...and am now reaching out to my fellow ALTS for
a little input. Two part question...the other is below.
Question: How many men are intimidated by a sexually free-spirited
and uninhibited woman???
What I've discovered personally, firsthand is that
most are...maybe some won't admit it...but I truly
believe a few of ...
2 Commentaires, 251 Consultations,
3 Votes
,2.45 Score
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What Would Be Your BEST Suggestions??? 5/4/2006
I Was Wondering What Some Of You Would
Suggest For A Couple Where The Female Partner Has Had More
Experience In The Lifstyle...And The Male Is Still A Beginner???
I'd Love To Dominate Him...He's Pretty Passive...So
Would It Be Wise For Me To Simply Just Begin Placing Damands
And Such Upon Him???
He's Said I Can Do Whatever I Like...He Wants Me To Lead
And He ...
1 Commentaires, 65 Consultations,
2 Votes
,5.20 Score
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Cum Swallowing Tips 3/4/2006
Cum Swallowing Tips
Suck on an Altoid, Tic Tac, or mentholated cough drop immediately
before giving head. Many guys enjoy getting a tingle from
mint or menthol products on their willies. The mint will
add a little zing to the blow job, and kill the taste of the
semen when he cums. You can also use a dab of toothpaste in
a pinch. We don't recommend mouthwash or breath sprays; ...
2 Commentaires, 492 Consultations,
9 Votes
,5.14 Score
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Truth in age 2/4/2006
Greetings,
Recently I was contacted through alt by another dom. The
age on his profile was 60. When we met I thought he was older
and asked him how old he was an he said 62 and then while telling
a story he refered to himself as 65. We had met for a drink
and seemed to click as two tops.
I am 48 years old. My birthday is not April Fools Day as it
says on my ...
1 Commentaires, 170 Consultations,
3 Votes
,2.45 Score
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can anyone out there help me? 1/4/2006
I am happily married but my sex life is suffering. My wife
is great but there just doesn't seem to be enough time
for sex. Have any of you got into this kind of situation?
Is there anything i can do to help my sex life pick up? Anything
at all let me know. Is there a video or toys that worked i'm
willing to try just about anything.
2 Commentaires, 151 Consultations,
5 Votes
,4.45 Score
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Is this dom safe or dangerous... 30/3/2006
Hi everyone, I'm a newbie sub who is trying to set out
on the BDSM journey. So far its going ok, but I now think I've
meet that 'dom guy' the one your warned about.
So I'm looking for some advice and any suggestions
from both subs and dom's.
Firstly we had chatted briefly, he knew I was a newbie and
looking for a dom guy to train me, it was one conversation
and with that came the ...
12 Commentaires, 933 Consultations,
12 Votes
,5.45 Score
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Im new 27/3/2006
Im new to this sight and like to be the dom partner. Is there
anyway i can find female partners who would be willing to
be sub?
0 Commentaires, 82 Consultations,
1 Votes
,2.40 Score
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Learning From my Own Mistakes 27/3/2006
I recently had written an article because I was very upset
when My Sir had emailed me releasing me and getting off Alt, ,
Moving out of the state and stuff , ., .I Was wrong, He is
not a Fake I wrote an article out of hurt and anger..I have
since tried to connect to several different Dom's
, ,I have had one disaster after another, , , Ladies and
gentleman that also might be Sub's.This is a ...
0 Commentaires, 65 Consultations,
5 Votes
,3.47 Score
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Don't always rely on looks 25/3/2006
I have been with several women from this site. I have found
that you should never rely on looks alone. Most of the women
I have been with that are the "barbie" type are
shallow. I think that the best women I have been with are
not the barbie type. They are more down to earth and much
more appealing. They make much better companions.
4 Commentaires, 186 Consultations,
12 Votes
,4.74 Score
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The Difference between S/M and Abuse 12/3/2006
A group of leaders and activists who attended the Leather
Leadership Conference II in NYC on April 17-19, 1998, compiled
the following set of ideals based on established community
principles that SM is fundamentally different from abuse.
We hope the community agrees to the following Standards
& Guidelines that are intended to help the law enforcement
and social services communities ...
1 Commentaires, 220 Consultations,
12 Votes
,5.45 Score
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Advice for new male submissives 9/3/2006
This article is being written by Mistress Lila's male
submissive. my name is pleasure.
Hello. Let me tell you a little bit about me and why i have
the right to address this topic.
i have been a submissive since i was 23. i am 50 now. My first
wife was a Dominant. She trained me as a service sub to Her
and Her friends. (ok guys, get your heads out of your crotches.
Not ...
3 Commentaires, 264 Consultations,
3 Votes
,2.94 Score
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What I looked for 6/3/2006
Since I wrote something about what I do not want to see in
messages and profiles and since I have gone forward and
I am in the process of actually becoming owned, I thought
I would write about what I looked for. I will put a strong
disclaimer that this is purely one girl’s opinion and thought
process and that is all. I would expect we all have different
ways when it comes to this subject. ...
2 Commentaires, 283 Consultations,
14 Votes
,5.22 Score
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Whats the catch with Dommes? 5/3/2006
OK whats the catch? Your profile isnt advertizing for money
or anything so whats the catch? Dont tell me, your looking
for free labour or something? I mean you cant actually be
looking for a male sub for a real relationship can you surely?
1 Commentaires, 153 Consultations,
2 Votes
,1.04 Score
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at Boston's Logan Airport 1/3/2006
The airport limo brought her up to the main door,
When she stepped out I nearly fell to the floor
She was a wearing a Black Vinyl raincoat, and matching
boots
Her porter accidentally dropped her bag, he wasn't
very astute
When he bent over, her stiletto heel found...leaving its
mark
It sounded like a whoof, he keeled over_N_he didn't
dare bark
Picked up her bags, and he lap dogged ...
0 Commentaires, 244 Consultations,
3 Votes
,3.92 Score
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Oral Sex, Who's really in charge? 1/3/2006
Have you ever wondered about that question? It seems to
be that if you ask a woman, it's them on both ways. If
you ask a man you get the same answer that they are. So which
is true? That depends on the situation. Of course if the
giver is tied up the reciever is in control. If reciever
is tied up then the giver is in control. If no restrants are
involved thats the shady grey area.
...
1 Commentaires, 305 Consultations,
7 Votes
,4.57 Score
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Take your time to learn all you can 25/2/2006
Every one's in such a hurry these day's and not
getting any ware fast.Take your time to learn all you can
with in you World.Enjoy life and all it has to offer good
and bad.Ying & Yang good & evil spinning toghter
in a perfect circle of Harrmoney much like your own little
World.
0 Commentaires, 78 Consultations,
3 Votes
,1.96 Score
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cross dressing 25/2/2006
I"am A strict sraight man but love to wear womans clothes
nylons, heals.short skirts etc.Is that normal or am seeking
something else.
6 Commentaires, 416 Consultations,
12 Votes
,2.27 Score
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Combining TENS units with other "toys" 20/2/2006
TENS units really turn me on. I am considering purchasing
one, and using a bi polar vaginal insert attachment. However,
I really like my Eroscillator, a vibrator that I use for
clitoral stimulation and that plugs into the electrical
outlet. Can I use this with my TENS unit, or will it be dangerous
to use an electrical device with an electrical device?
Also, is it safe to use the TENS unit ...
5 Commentaires, 423 Consultations,
9 Votes
,4.28 Score
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My .02 advice to Dom's profiles and messages 15/2/2006
I am sure there are one million articles for both men wondering
why they do not get replies and from woman who are tired of
the lame messages. As a woman who has been on for a short time,
here is my impression and advice for the men and couples
out there looking for a woman.
<br>
1) Don't be negative! - Yes, there are a lot of fakers
out there both men and woman. Ranting about ...
11 Commentaires, 1105 Consultations,
80 Votes
,8.33 Score
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First time submissive 6/2/2006
I have always wondered what it would be like to be humiliated
and subjected to pain. I have enjoyed the domination side
before many times, but was keen to see what it was like with
the boot on the other foot (so to speak). I visited a B&D
palour last week, and I have not been able to get the experience
out of my head. It made me dizzy with excitement.
<br>
I had my cock tied up, I ...
1 Commentaires, 249 Consultations,
9 Votes
,3.00 Score
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training a Dom? 5/2/2006
My BF/lover is wanting to go to the next level. We've
been pretty wild in the past, borderline BDSM, but now I've
issued an invitation, which he has accepted. A matter of
trust. We've done a few toys, anal, biting, and sex
play for hours.
<br>
He's waiting for the greenlight. Anything he wants
is kind of vague and could be harmful, so any suggestions?
i've had a bit of leather ...
3 Commentaires, 311 Consultations,
1 Votes
,2.40 Score
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How does one know ? 4/2/2006
How does one know if a Dom is as experienced as he says he is?....
How do you know if what he is saying to you in the first place
is fact or fallacy?.... I dont want me make the same mistake
twice..... I chat to a lot of people..... and they have given
some do's and dont's.... like your safety etc
when first meeting....
<br>
thanks would be interested in different opinions and ...
5 Commentaires, 393 Consultations,
7 Votes
,4.31 Score
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Fighting Fire With Fire; why pain works 1/2/2006
It's important for every Dom/me to understand the
underlying reasons for the infliction of pain. I am familiar
with all the varied thoughts and motivations that subs
will give for wanting to receive pain. When you seek to question
and understand the underlying reasons you will realize
they almost always arise from some unresolved issue in
the past that was too difficult to deal with at ...
2 Commentaires, 853 Consultations,
31 Votes
,6.50 Score
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The Cornerstone of Loyalty is Trust. 26/1/2006
The cornerstone of loyalty is trust. I recently had an opportunity
to speak to a sister who came to me regarding a man she has
been being used by. She feels abandoned and mislead and
lied to by him due to his actions and the words of another
Free Man (a supposed friend to her Owner) who has spoken
to her regarding him. Yes, this lady has been serving him
real time but not in a 24/7 ...
0 Commentaires, 428 Consultations,
16 Votes
,4.45 Score
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The making of a Domme, if possible. 18/1/2006
My spouse and i have started to play (mildly, to be sure!)
a bit of D/s. She has shown tendencies to be Domme, and none
to be sub, which is fine with me, as i prefer subbing. She
is a bit on the prude side, and i would like her to be more open
to exploring and discovering what is involved in this world
of BDSM. We have been approached by a few people, from this
site as well as others, ...
1 Commentaires, 213 Consultations,
2 Votes
,2.42 Score
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