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Looking for help 13/9/2011
Hello, Here is my question, does anyone know where I can find a place
to meet people in the lifestyle, that my wife would not really
get the impression right off the bat that, that is where
we were. I've brought up the idea of checking out a local
munch or going to some of the industrial themed night clubs
in the city, but she is uninterested in large crowds. She
has told me she would be more ...
0 Commentaires, 32 Consultations,
0 Votes
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Training a new sub 30/7/2011
I am about to start a relationship with a new sub. I wondered
if anyone had ever bothered to document a structured training
regime to lead her through her training? I know the instant
answer is that everyone is different so please let’s
not get sidetracked on that. Many of the things I want to
introduce her to are repeatable in any relationship, from
light bondage and spanking onwards. I want ...
1 Commentaires, 270 Consultations,
10 Votes
,2.19 Score
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Should i just walk away? 18/7/2011
Ok so lately ive been doing alot of thinking. I love the thought
of the BDSM life style, its on my mind all the time. I get turned
on by the thought of being tied-up, wearing sexy outfits,
serving a mistress etc. My biggest fantasy is being sissified
by a mistress. But im now in a 2 year relationship which is
going really well, im crazy about the girl but she doesn't
share my interest in BDSM. ...
1 Commentaires, 215 Consultations,
3 Votes
,3.43 Score
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So What Kind of Sub Are You? The Elements of Submission 14/6/2011
The BDSM community seems to know what it means when it says
Dom and sub to each other. Yet a look at the forums and groups
on line show how much those definitions are really up for
discussion. It is important for you as a sub to know how you
feel and more importantly what about the way you feel should
and can be communicated to a potential play mate. Very important.
What goes into the makeup of a ...
0 Commentaires, 243 Consultations,
22 Votes
,2.65 Score
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How do you carry on...? 23/5/2011
Greetings boys and Girls...perhaps you can help me...?
I am in a relationship and we very much enjoy playing Dom/sub
games. When I dominate my little sub male I can keep him on
edge for hours at a time while I tease, torture, humiliate
and degrade him in the most imaginative ways possible...but
I'm having a little problem with the scene endings,
and not in the usual way.
...
1 Commentaires, 134 Consultations,
7 Votes
,2.28 Score
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Boom 18/2/2011
Whitehouse Hotline This is the Whitehouse Hot Line please enter one for English
or two for Spanish. Thank you! Please for World Affairs press one! For World Economics’ press two For Civil Rights press three For Veteran Affairs press four For all other problems press “O” Your call is important to us, your call will be answered
in the order it was received, please stay on the line, while
you ...
1 Commentaires, 20 Consultations,
2 Votes
,1.73 Score
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Power Shifting --- using anal sex 1/2/2011
This is a borderline sex story, but hopefully I will illustrate
how I came to be Dominant after being the 'lesser'
(albeit marginally) for the first time sexually.
It was unintentional Power Shifting to be sure, but a good
lesson learned.
...and a lifestyle created, hopefully I can help others.
It was 2000 or so, late twenties for me. New area, new job
etc.
Met ...
2 Commentaires, 231 Consultations,
5 Votes
,5.75 Score
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Pleasing My Asshole/Anal Flower 16/1/2011
My anal flower needs some TLC for 10-15 minutes. Finger
the crevise of my ass, brush more than one finger over opening.
A partner can stretch open my asshole and see what can be
put inside.
0 Commentaires, 18 Consultations,
0 Votes
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- Gained a Sub, Lost a Sub - 12/12/2010
Hello,
I met someone on alt, and they were good.
I got frustrated with the way things were going and did something
stupid.
I believe part of the issue is they were under stress for
various reasons, were going from sub to switch mode, were
topping from the bottom - maintaining they were sub, but
actually wanted to be in control.
They have broken off ...
1 Commentaires, 167 Consultations,
1 Votes
,2.40 Score
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man wanting 2 suck cock and swallow cum, but no takers. 6/11/2010
i have been trying 4 a long time to fall on my knees and take
a big cock in my mouth and suck it til it shoots a big load down
my throat. i cant get anyone to take advantage of me, why??
i am willing to do anything for someone to please them. i
just want to know what it feels like to be one of those girls
in the pornos. i always want to be them when i watch and i get
the most turned on when i see ...
3 Commentaires, 218 Consultations,
7 Votes
,3.55 Score
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Panty Sniffing/Face Sitting/Smothering Advice 13/9/2010
Ahhhh, the sweet smell of pussy and ass. I absolutely love the smell of a hot pussy and ass right above
my face. When you spend a lot of time sniffing panties or
being facesat you really start to fall in love with the smells
that come with it. Facesitting means your face is generally
buried in pussy and ass, so you get a taste and a smell of that
and you are instantly in the pleasure zone. ...
3 Commentaires, 187 Consultations,
10 Votes
,5.77 Score
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Dom/Slave relationship 21/5/2010
What happens when the relationship changes? When love
enters the scene? The entire dynamic of the relationship
is thrown out the window? I love the new attention but miss
much of what I came into this relationship for. Darned if
I do and ..... private responses are welcome, thanks
0 Commentaires, 121 Consultations,
0 Votes
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Threat of STDs in the bi community. 24/3/2010
I am new to the scene and can't help but wonder what the
situation, STD wise, is like. Is it a problem or is it uncommon?
0 Commentaires, 31 Consultations,
1 Votes
,2.40 Score
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looking for advice on meeting ppl online 16/3/2010
Okay so im only 21, ive had this profile for a few months now,
but i havent gotten any progress can anyone please help
me meet some people on here in my area... maybe give me some
pointers on things to say or do and such?
1 Commentaires, 99 Consultations,
1 Votes
,2.40 Score
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HOT GAY MEN SEX WITH HOT TIPS ESPECIALLY A UNDERWEAR FETISH 15/3/2010
1) Speak with your partner about each other's fantasies.
Yes! If you know what your partner likes, then you will know
how to exactly satify him in the sack. Don't try guessing
as this may lead to aggravation on both sides. If he has an
underwear fetish. Get home from work, surprise him by stripping
down on your finest pair of briefs, flip him over your knee
and spank him as he admires the buldge ...
1 Commentaires, 59 Consultations,
4 Votes
,2.86 Score
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SUBMISSIVE VERSUS SLAVE 9/3/2010
When does a submissive become a slave? I mean at what point?
Is it based on the time they spend submitting, that is to
say if they are submissive 24/7 are you therefore a slave?
Is it based on the level of submission, if you have limits
can you ever be a slave?
If you are submissive with no limits are you automatically
a slave?
I am interested in the definative answer ...
3 Commentaires, 213 Consultations,
6 Votes
,5.07 Score
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want to write better? 26/2/2010
I write a lot here and i have found that a new writing site
has helped me get better with my writing. It nationalwriter.org.
You can post articals and and get advice on writing. As we all know the more you writer here the more you earn points
to get stuff but if you are not writing well no one wants to
read your stuff. take a look at nationalwriter.org i hope
i spelt it right
1 Commentaires, 59 Consultations,
4 Votes
,2.47 Score
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New To LifeStyle Question 22/2/2010
I have decided to step into the lifestyle and have a submissive
side. In my vanilla world I am in management and have seen
a bit of life. I have been approched by a Domme who after a
few emails, no real contact yet, and she is requesting that
I show my devotion by sending her cash. I have yet to see a
picture and have no doubt that if I were under the control
of a Domme I would seek financially ...
2 Commentaires, 47 Consultations,
3 Votes
,2.45 Score
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quick ? 29/1/2010
ok so me and a couple of people i know were debating if sex
helps u stay in shape. Some say yes some say no.
I say yes because sex provides good cardio and if u have the
right stamina can work up a sweat and burn calories whats
ur opinion people?
0 Commentaires, 19 Consultations,
0 Votes
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NO DRAMA ! 16/11/2009
What dose it mean when some-one
say's NO DRAMA!" To mo me it states that
you should not have any emotional issues. Maybe
I am Wrong, but can you tell me of any-one who doesn't
have any emotions! I feel that the statement "NO
Drama", is used by people who them-selves
'can not' deal with their own issues,
let alone someone Else's. I ...
1 Commentaires, 59 Consultations,
3 Votes
,1.96 Score
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New York Dominatrix 23/10/2009
I'm currently in NYC and would love any info on a good
dominatrix in the area. Has anyone on here had any good experiences.
Any names you can throw at me would be greatly appreciated.
0 Commentaires, 47 Consultations,
0 Votes
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Can you answer this? 16/10/2009
Its just a question, a discussion... Thats all.
Why is it that in the last 60 to 80 years, it is unacceptable
and there are laws against marriage to a girl, when
all through history it was normal, and acceptable. Thats
how life has been for thousands of years, but just in recent
history has that became not acceptable. Like some idlest
is pushing off there beliefs on the rest of the ...
2 Commentaires, 116 Consultations,
9 Votes
,0.43 Score
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Thoughts on the DD/g dynamic 20/9/2009
There is a misunderstanding about submissives that is
very apparent here on alt. Now that I can see profiles, I
have read about those wishing to "train" and
"be trained".
The actual fact of the matter is that a submissive is a submissive.
The role of the Dominant is simply one of a catalyst. His
presence sparks the flame, but He is only the outward encouragement
of her journey to her ...
0 Commentaires, 159 Consultations,
13 Votes
,4.99 Score
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Am I living in reality with my ideas? 12/7/2009
Hi and thanks for taking the time to read this and maybe respond.
I've put up an ad seeking "employment"
as a housekeeper with benefits. I'm sure that's
far from being strange on this website but I do have a question,
whether or not I'm living in reality here or chasing
whatever.
I'm not in the BDSM scene nor anywhere around it. I grew
up in a Christian home. I've had my sexual ...
3 Commentaires, 107 Consultations,
3 Votes
,1.96 Score
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cock size 14/6/2009
guys, stop stop stop lying about your cock size. i am sick
of chatting with someone that swears they are uncut, nice
cock and it gets hard. well it might be uncut and it might
get hard but its only 4 inches when its stiff. what the hell
can i do with a 4 inch cock. absolutely nothing. nothing.
i have had it with guys that i have hooked up with that swear
they have a nice cock when its time to ...
0 Commentaires, 85 Consultations,
2 Votes
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how do i find a Mistress 1/6/2009
ive been on alt for 7 months . i used to get alot of contacts
but now i dont. is there a FEMDOM out there who would guide
and train me?
0 Commentaires, 52 Consultations,
0 Votes
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Outside of the box 16/5/2009
There is no such thing as a bad suggestion if the intent of
the suggestion is honorable; only a closed mind that is
wrapped up within itself would waste time in flaming another
that is acting in integrity and honor. It is the acceptance
of difference that allows us to to think outside of the norm
which is where we will find creative answers. What we are
now doing is not working, therefore we ...
0 Commentaires, 22 Consultations,
2 Votes
,2.42 Score
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Why training is more than behavior 2/5/2009
Within the time through my mid-30s I found that two prominent
parts of my life had always been in conflict. That was sexuality
and spirituality. Of course a large part of that was because
of the dogma of organized religion, which I have since thrown
off the yolk of repression.
Then in my 40s these two areas began merging into one and
continues to do so as time progresses. I believe it ...
0 Commentaires, 62 Consultations,
2 Votes
,1.04 Score
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Whats the best way 8/3/2009
What is the best way to tell someone your not interested,
without seeming like an asshole or a hypocrite?
6 Commentaires, 102 Consultations,
4 Votes
,2.86 Score
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A Easter Saga! 7/3/2009
Healed! A Revised Saga of He Is Risen! The Saga Continues…A Revision He Is Risen! By Nevin Jefferson
News item on the Internet: “Dozens of Greek and Armenian
priests and worshipers exchanged blows at one of Christianity's
holiest shrines on Orthodox Palm Sunday and used palm fronds
to pummel police who tried to break up the brawl”. So much for Easter cheer here gang! In light of ...
0 Commentaires, 10 Consultations,
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