MistressTara69 73 T
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IS THERE ANYTHING WORSE THAN NO SHOWS?   19/3/2005

Hi friends, I'm back and want to address this issue..NO SHOWS. Is there anything worse? I suppose there is, I've just found that every member I ever met personallly, was at the least, part of who they said they were..lol/ <br> But no shows, that is the bottom of the food chain, utter disrespect and real callousness that enflames a person's emotions and hurts frankly. <br> ...


5 Commentaires, 1000 Consultations, 58 Votes ,5.05 Score
servant2u40 60 H
10 Articles
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Usually the next day   13/3/2005

I will never forget my first real girlfriend in high school, after I spent most of the night thinking she was asleep with my face in her panty covered ass, and sucking her asshole.The next morning forever changed me, I realized I do have a female counterpart, that is a girl who is into recieving oral sex only and lots of assworship.U see she woke me up by sitting on my face, telling ...


0 Commentaires, 2240 Consultations, 80 Votes ,0.07 Score
milkmyts 57 F
2 Articles
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Adult Nursing   10/3/2005

My very first experience with adult nursing happpened quite by mistake. I had, had a miscarriage so my breast were leaking. the person I was dating came over to see how I was feeling. I mentioned to him that my breast were milking and he said that he had always wanted to try that. I removed one of my breast and allowed him to suckle ( I've always had a thing for having them sucked). It ...


2 Commentaires, 2471 Consultations, 139 Votes ,5.64 Score
dajokerishuge 42 H
4 Articles
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What about smokers?   7/3/2005

Why is it that the everyday smoker does not have his/her option of discretely acknowledging that they have a hidden pleasure that is a lifestyle in it self? I have not heard a valid reason why it should not be considered a lifestyle choice and given the ability to know whether or not someone will match them more completely. Is there any hope of change?......


0 Commentaires, 374 Consultations, 10 Votes ,1.19 Score
Mollena 53 F
7 Articles
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The Prime Directive   6/3/2005

In my trainings, I was given several unshakable rules. The first was the “Prime Directive”. (Yes, I suppose it is an amusing co-incidence that it is a phrase akin to the Starfleet core value, but as we know, so many perverts are geeks…!) <br> The prime directive in my D/s relationships is this: <br> “The (submissive / slave) has the duty to protect the (dominant ...


3 Commentaires, 2855 Consultations, 201 Votes ,6.81 Score
SirDeeVe8 82 H
2 Articles
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Baby Do you have A Hard Limit?   1/3/2005

Ok Ok, so it's a bad start to an important subject but hey, I'm a lecturer and a Dom. What do you expect? lol <br> Seriously though, you need to have thought out a "Hard Limit" list, i.e. a list of things that you simply do not wish to participate in. It's not all that difficult to write, and for your own sake and the sake of your Dom/me you should have it. Remember - anything ...


1 Commentaires, 370 Consultations, 13 Votes ,4.82 Score
melj 67 C
6 Articles
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knowing is not to abuse   27/2/2005

I was going to post a comment to the “Diff. between S/D relationship & mentally abusive one? “ And then thought better of it…. Safe Sane & consensual… yes. The problem arises from the age old candy store syndrome I am in the candy store and I want… <br> I have heard and seen Dominants and submissive who jump in and commit to a D/s or M/s relationship from the ...


2 Commentaires, 269 Consultations, 9 Votes ,5.99 Score
melj 67 C
6 Articles
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does it work.. of course   17/2/2005

Jim (Dominant, melj) Wow It is the first time i have looked at the Mag section and I was shocked... <br> I can see so many lost soul's who for whatever reason seem to be in a pickle... negativity and lots of it... <br> RELATIONSHIPS There are many types of relationships in the alternative scene, none are wrong or right they are only what we need, if you want ...


3 Commentaires, 231 Consultations, 9 Votes ,4.71 Score
GoddessOfCruelty 47 F
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Being in love and having slaves   15/2/2005

Is it possible for this to be mutually exclusive? <br> <br> I have a very dominant side, but I don't tend to express is to partners, as I feel it is seperate from the relationship. I'm happy with it being this way. <br> <br> Is it really possible to have the Mistress/Slave relationship intertwined and in a 'normal' partnership, and is it necessary, in ...


5 Commentaires, 444 Consultations, 13 Votes ,5.32 Score
S_she_S 54 F
36 Articles
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Thoughts of a sub, the response from the Dominant   6/2/2005

When I first saw you weeks back. I knew then I had to have you. The want and desire was strong. But not until I was within inches of you, feeling your heat radiating out, smelling the faint and underlying aroma of lust and need from you, was my control sorely tested as it has not been in so many years. While sitting talking to the people last night you passed and grazed your nails across my ...


0 Commentaires, 348 Consultations, 13 Votes ,6.00 Score
S_she_S 54 F
36 Articles
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Thoughts of a sub   6/2/2005

I sat here last night, thinking, always thinking, about what would happen if you, or I lost control and started to explore... Being that I crave your touch so badly, and you crave touching me so badly, beyond, for both of us, the comfortable yet tragically torturous yet.... So much needed caresses, mostly in passing or out of the habit of just what felt right at the time...But I so ...


0 Commentaires, 198 Consultations, 9 Votes ,5.14 Score
AcidSpikes 37 H
3 Articles
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question   1/2/2005

is it alright not to want any thing like for example i was laying in bed naked and my gf( at the time ) came over got naked to but we didnt do any thing i mean i didnt mind cause i have always thought as long as i get time with her im happy well im not so sure now she said thats what she wanted and stuff and she liked doing that well i found out that she started to get it some where else so ...


0 Commentaires, 134 Consultations, 2 Votes
ANOTHERSANTA 94 H
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"SANTA!^^I'M PREGNANT^^!"   25/1/2005

SANTA{DATELINE]PREGNANT?Dont.blameMe SNOW-WHITE;SANTA I'm still 5'-8" I was.118#(size 3 or 5)andwore, tight fitting jeans and.miniskirts. Now I weigh 163#(size 12 or 14), I've accepted my new figure but, my husband, Prince Charming hasn't. He continues to buy me expemive clothes (size 5), telling me to set them aside untl I can fit in them agan. Can I get my husband and ...


0 Commentaires, 144 Consultations, 3 Votes
ANOTHERSANTA 94 H
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SANTA;#1-LOOKOUT^SLAYAGE.TV(BuffyVamp.Slayerwebsite)   24/1/2005

SANTA[DEADLINE]Stake^TheUndead"Buffy SECRETSANTA;Rhonda Wilcoxis.finding out what is behind Buffy's Vampire' Sayer's Punch! "I was there from the first season , the name was goofy, it had to be really good or horrible, "said Rhonda , a professor of English at Gordon college in Geeorgia. The show.was.created.by.JossWhedon, and began ...


0 Commentaires, 39 Consultations, 2 Votes ,2.42 Score
ANOTHERSANTA 94 H
93 Articles
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"SANTA'S.HIDEAWAY.USE.TO.BE.CASTLEDRACULA?"   23/1/2005

SANTA[DEADLINE]FORRENT.DRAC.HIDEAWAY Nestled deep in the scenic heartof a Transylvania setting. All rooms have CountDrac.-sized beds. Room service is an extra monthly charge, with hot and cold maidenhead service at no extra charge if you choose to change the blood, semen streaked bed linen nightly. nurafora9cent ourly fee. Stay inour.moseleum like luxury suites, guaanteed vermin and ...


0 Commentaires, 42 Consultations, 0 Votes
ANOTHERSANTA 94 H
93 Articles
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"SANTA,What's.Grandpa.doing.in Iraq[War?]"   20/1/2005

SANTA[Deadline]Mosul, iraq, BaseCamp: SECRETSANATA was not aware that the government had resorted to pull- out all the stops and, recalling 50yr and older ex-GIs, such as Major John Nelson for duty in Iraq. He says he doesn't mind the troops under him calling him "Grandpa" and "Dad", and after all they are"whipper-snappers" in their 20's and he's 51. SANTA; has learned the ...


0 Commentaires, 61 Consultations, 1 Votes ,2.40 Score
ANOTHERSANTA 94 H
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"SANTA IF I WAS PRESIDENT I'D..."(AconcernedTeen)   19/1/2005

SANTA[DEADLINE]Freedoms.answer.ATeen SECRETSANTA.asked.severalteen-agers before and after the lastRe-election of The"PREZ", a simple questsion, what they'd do if they were President? Emily N., 18, of Tampa, Florida said- "When I am President I will remember several thing like;Reember what it was like to live with 2 hard working parents.eking out a living day by day, Remember In ...


0 Commentaires, 67 Consultations, 2 Votes
ANOTHERSANTA 94 H
93 Articles
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SANTA;"PREZ"^GEO.W.BUSH^AGENDA.2005:   17/1/2005

SANTA[DEADLINE]WASH, D.C."PREZ": SECRETSANTA;Both Federal and Local Govermnts will get tougher agressing individual rights, (that's.unprovok- ed). The machinery to implement exe- cutive Order Woman 490 which gives the President power to do any thing he deems neccessary for the welfare of the nation, which includes the destruction of all currency in the United States, and probably ...


0 Commentaires, 78 Consultations, 1 Votes
sweetheart77 49 F
9 Articles
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Poly relationships   9/1/2005

Do poly relationships EVER work? Is there a formula to make it work? Or is it something that others can grow into? Are certain people cut out for poly lifestyles?


4 Commentaires, 316 Consultations, 9 Votes ,1.93 Score
ZEYAD077416675 59 H
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heyyyyyyyyyy   4/1/2005

to paintbrushAdrift:you r so sexy and attractive, i like <br> u.


0 Commentaires, 105 Consultations, 8 Votes
phil56 67 H
11 Articles
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Need a woman.s advice   30/12/2004

First, Do women like men who are hairy or shaved? During the seventies and early eighties, it was "macho" if you were hairy, now I hear women say they like a man who is smooth. I see this often when gay guys are looking, but what about women? I was hairy (being Italian), but I have since shaved smooth, except the hair on my head)(the big one).Second, does size matter? I hear conflicting ...


5 Commentaires, 253 Consultations, 7 Votes ,2.28 Score
phil56 67 H
11 Articles
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Finding a Dom or Sub   30/12/2004

A place where you can have fun and possibly find what you are looking for, is at the New York Renisance Faire.There is the dramatic and romantic side to be satisfied here, as well as a hugh collection of people in leather and spandex, as well as women laced up in corsets. I am sure amongst some of those in costume are those living in the "alternate" lifestyle. If you have never been ...


1 Commentaires, 131 Consultations, 7 Votes ,2.02 Score
native_icon 72 H
5 Articles
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In The Beginning   23/12/2004

Many people have 2 lives. In the real world, they may be straight ordinary people and go about their straight ordinary day. Maybe even I am one of those people. who knows. <br> In here, we can be want we want to be. When we meet others, they only know the us that is here in this online family. <br> So when and how would one incorporate the two lives without disrupting ...


3 Commentaires, 276 Consultations, 28 Votes ,2.01 Score
slave20000 52 F
14 Articles
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R diamonds a girls best friend   21/12/2004

Can wealth and diamonds realy fill the void in someones (a dommes) soul. i think NOT! i think the jewels will keep the domme entertained for a while, not very long though...it cant compare the true power exchange...in my life, i believe in the power exchange, i have lived it. can anything else even compare? how long will it take her to venture out and find the one thing that does make her ...


1 Commentaires, 240 Consultations, 32 Votes ,1.74 Score
nikki_smiles 49 F
2 Articles
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If you really want to WOW your girl....   19/12/2004

I swear if you do this you will have her (or him) forever!!! <br> Purchase a dozen roses, go to your local arts and crafts store and purchase one silk rose. (You can get them looking so real!) Take one of the real roses out of the vase and place on her pillow. Add the silk rose into the middle of the 11 remaining roses. (Cut silk stem down if rose doesnt completely match, that way ...


3 Commentaires, 493 Consultations, 53 Votes ,5.59 Score
DarkDesiresNYC 56 C
2 Articles
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The Perfect Master - Misconception and Resolution   16/12/2004

Hello, <br> We thought that you might enjoy a short essay that we recently wrote. Any comments are welcome! <br> Happy holidays! Sir Eric <br> <br> The Perfect Master – Misconception and Resolution* <br> "You, the Master, are in charge and in control. You own the responsibility of your property - whether it is real estate, slaves or your ...


4 Commentaires, 410 Consultations, 32 Votes ,4.27 Score
MsGenevieve666 48 F
1 Article
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Co-dependancy and slave owning   15/12/2004

Many dream of the perfect slave/owner relationship...one of devotion, disciple, function and feeling owned body mind and soul... This is a beautiful fantasy, but the reality can easily become unhealthy co-dependancy. In a safe, sane, and consensual ideal this isn't exactly sane. <br> Where is this line? Can one have a relationship that fulfills the fantasy and definition of ...


3 Commentaires, 363 Consultations, 34 Votes ,5.31 Score
sweetheart77 49 F
9 Articles
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Exploring a bi relationship   14/12/2004

How does one who has been straight all of their life, initiate a bi relationship? It seems like all of the stuff that you learn with guys goes out the window with woman. Perhaps i am too nieve, it is so new, and almost scary to me. Does anyone have any hints on how a woman can connect with another woman?


5 Commentaires, 264 Consultations, 9 Votes ,4.07 Score
redhotlips2 44 F
11 Articles
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What is the role of symbolism?   12/12/2004

Talk about leashes, collars and other BDSM "accessories" has got me thinking... <br> The very first time I was exposed to this concept was late into the relationship with my first dom. I started with an off hand comment that wearing shirt collars or necklaces always makes me very aware of my neck. He very much liked what he called my adventurous spirit and fiestiness. He ...


1 Commentaires, 188 Consultations, 19 Votes ,3.52 Score
redhotlips2 44 F
11 Articles
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"Power Corrupts" but what about the Power Exchange?   11/12/2004

The idea that power corrupts, does it apply in D/s? <br> The first thing that comes to my mind is that it shouldn't be applicable in a D/s environment. While the quote (i believe) refers to general power, it's usually applied in political fields. So i was tempted to just deny it out of hand. <br> But that doesn't really make sense. After all, power is power, in ...


2 Commentaires, 129 Consultations, 18 Votes ,3.81 Score