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Dont Take it personal.... 10.6.2006
Dont take it personal when you meet someone and the "chemistry"
just isnt there. The thing you have to remember is that 99%
of the people you meet you wont get along with EVEN if they
are physically attractive.
The key to finding the right person is knowing that YOU want
and need from a potential Dom/me sub/slave and then DONT
SETTLE for anything less.
When I am meeting someone whom I ...
2 Kommentare, 143 Angesehen,
9 Stimmen
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everyones expecting 30.5.2006
people are always sending the most crazy emails and most
expect a responce. This isn't porn shop just a place
to hook up. if people would lightn up and just be honest with
self you'd be getting some right now.
1 Kommentare, 102 Angesehen,
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will you be the slave for the rest of my life?NO THANKS 29.4.2006
Why people just dont understand when u refuse them and they
are so angry about it.I just dont get it, or maybe i am a little
bit stupid hehe
2 Kommentare, 227 Angesehen,
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when you've found someone else.... 30.3.2006
Why is it that whenever I've said "Thank-you,
but I've found what I'm looking for right now"
men seem to think its an invite to ask one of, or the entire
series of questions...
"Why does he have I don't" "What makes you think he's better than me"
"Why did you lead me on"
"Will you keep in touch with me in case it doesn't
work out"
"Will you just call me anyways"
Its pathetic. ...
1 Kommentare, 170 Angesehen,
10 Stimmen
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How to say you are not interested 25.3.2006
I believe that people need to be more honest when they either
respond to an individual, or show any interest. They need
to be upfront from the beginning. If the person does not
appeal to you, then let them know. Don't lead them on
and then back out. If you put a pic in your profile, make sure
it is you.
0 Kommentare, 93 Angesehen,
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dont get tied down. 1.2.2006
She looked so nuetral. And as i talked to her she showed no
sign of what was to come . I went to her house and we drank some
then she got a little goofy and asked me if she could tie my
hands behind my back. i Playfiully said yes she looked so
sweet and beautiful. nice and almost naive.I let her kindinly
. She removed my pants and as i was naked she rubbed me off
before tying it off with ...
0 Kommentare, 549 Angesehen,
21 Stimmen
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Is It Illiteracy or Just Ignorance? 10.1.2006
The thing is a lot of times, saying "No thanks"
doesn't work. Men are particularly clueless. They
troll. They stalk. They whine, wheedle, and lie their asses
off just for the incomprehensible "flirtation"
of showing you a picture of their penis as if that's
all the allure someone wants in a relationship. Get some
clues, boys!
<br>
When someone takes the time and makes the ...
2 Kommentare, 588 Angesehen,
53 Stimmen
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Kinda hard to say NO 17.12.2005
Kinda ODD but I feel we all have had this moment in our "dateing"
lives.......hence ya like certain peeps but not sexually....But
they want you...Odd cause when you crave this you get it
but not from the ones you want....lol...Ironic cums to
mind...lol...So do you engage in sex just cause the other
wants too, or you say no and become the bad guy? I rather say
NO and be ohnest.....Sum say ...
1 Kommentare, 145 Angesehen,
8 Stimmen
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How to say no 7.11.2005
To say "no" and make it stick, try this three-step
technique. Ask yourself each of these questions, and then
look your friend straight in the eye, and confidently state
your position:
<br>
<br>
1. What's the problem?
Be very specific about what is wrong. Give it a name. Say
"that's stealing, " or "that's
dangerous, " or "that's mean."
<br>
2. What could ...
0 Kommentare, 168 Angesehen,
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how to say no 23.10.2005
Be honest in your evaluation of the other person and if you
still feel a negativity of interest be firm and say/write
NO (nothing else equates with these two letters so far as
communication is concerned - it is a universal acceptance
of negativity).
0 Kommentare, 205 Angesehen,
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Propriety or Prudishness 10.9.2005
When it comes to male on male love....its strictly a matter
of personal choice. I mean , most guys have had one or two.......a
few or more Homosexual encounters in their time. (and)
that is understandable.
<br>
However, I think a guy has to make some choices...........like-
I am a regular Bi-sexual or I make a living fucking other
guys -up the ass, (ect.
<br>
Now, ...
2 Kommentare, 223 Angesehen,
6 Stimmen
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How to say "No Thanks" 9.9.2005
I've been in a lot of situations where things were offered.
Whether its a lap dance or a 3rd helping of pie, when offered
and your not interested, I've always found the best
answer to be "No Thanks". Its simple and it works.
Why do we always try to make life so complicated?
0 Kommentare, 234 Angesehen,
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"No" doesn't = "Nasty" 8.9.2005
One of the things the Internet has added to our lives as we
seek our partner, is access to a larger pool. I live in a city
that has plenty of prospective partners, but how do you
cut through the bs and find others with compatible interests?
The Net provides safe ways, like through ALT...
First, it enables me to look at a profile, hopefully with
a picture, and see if what's said or unsaid ...
1 Kommentare, 135 Angesehen,
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After I was finished he said no thanks. 18.7.2005
I recently had a man write to me. This was the first e mail
to me and this is how I said no in a different way and gave him
a taste of his own crudeness.
_____________________________________
I'm looking for a bit of help--special help. I'm
thinking of having 4 guys over for a poker party but I need
a bit of an edge. You could help me with this edge by assuming
the role as my hostess ...
13 Kommentare, 1553 Angesehen,
98 Stimmen
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I'm innept 8.7.2005
I meet people from thse sites occationally, and they're
never my type. I have no good way of turning them away, so
I just try and fade out of mind. Does anyone have a better
way, without hurting anyones feelings? Am I doing it right?
5 Kommentare, 343 Angesehen,
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I try to be respectful 30.6.2005
Even when saying, no thank you, since respect is important.
One can not just say 'fuck off' .. well wait, one
can but it's entirely rude. Instead i like to point
out why i consider the whole effort a complete wash. It's
actually a fairly good way of pointing things out if mistakes
have been made. Things that people should consider....
i think it helps them in their searches.
Sometimes ...
2 Kommentare, 239 Angesehen,
19 Stimmen
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Meeting and Declining Sexual Invitations 21.6.2005
Has anyone ever met anyone off of this site and changed thier
mind about having sex with them because of false information
or pictures posted on the site?
4 Kommentare, 569 Angesehen,
15 Stimmen
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Safety In Play 12.6.2005
Hi All,
I recently went to meet up with a mistress from the uk, called
SexyDomBitch. We had chatted on line for a week days and
had discussed a lot fo BDSM activities we both enjoyed.
During this time, She had asked me to send her 15 pictures
of myself doing things she had told me she wanted to see.
Throughout this she refused point blank to send me a picture
of herself and told me I ...
6 Kommentare, 568 Angesehen,
37 Stimmen
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White or Wong? 23.5.2005
My sub and I have been together for 30 plus years as husband
and wide as well as Dom/sub. I am a psychologist and from
the moment I met her I realised she was a closet Bisexual.
So I encouraged her to make love with other women, although
I liked to be present. She has had some terrific lovers;
some subs as well, which has made things especially good
from my point of view. But the most ...
0 Kommentare, 348 Angesehen,
17 Stimmen
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Masochism without the sex 12.5.2005
I came here looking for someone to get involved in needle
play with, not because it arouses me sexually, but because
i like the how it feels in a "pain to know you are alive"
way. I have been in the community as a voyeur for a year now,
and the only thing that i have ever seen and wanted was to
be pierced.
I came to find a piercing artist who can maybe involve me
in a show without going ...
2 Kommentare, 313 Angesehen,
16 Stimmen
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The Message 6.5.2005
I have always found it to be very important to communicate
in some detail as of why things will not click between a new
aquaiqutance and or enquiry. Even if my mail box is flooded
with virtually dozen’s of new messages with most of them
being “canned” and very short to a degree of a few pointed
and often degrading words. My responses have varied of
course, but overall I always give a ...
1 Kommentare, 369 Angesehen,
25 Stimmen
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2005-05-06
"SANTA, can Police seize my cell phone, if we take
pictures of our doin's; this weeek-end with Tiffany, Ooopsie,
Carmen
and me, SANTA?" Just pretend to be 14yr. old, best
"nigga-friend" of Tiff.;"DARBY"
asked, as she continued to ride SANTA's pony, with
girlish enthusiasm. The old Elf chuockled and shook his
baldling head, and giving Darby a thank-you pat on her
caramel coloured butt, he said. "New Hanover County
Judge W.Allen Cobb Jr.Superior Court, in Wilmington,
NC, ruled
that arresting officers should have obtained a search
warrant before viewing images from the camera phone of
one Mr.ChristopherSnow, 26. Mr.Snow is charged by Wrightville
Beach Police with second-degree sexual-offense and secret
peeping-photographic image. A witness told Police that
she had seen Mr.Snow taking pictures of an unconscious
woman on the beach. An officer activated the phone and retrieved
several immages, including one of someone pulling down
the woman's underwear. A warrant was obtained the
next day, and police contacted Sprint corporate headquarters,
that provided copies of seven images including one of the
woman's genital area. Judge Cobb wrote "THE
SEARCH AND SEIZURE`Did not fall with in any aknowledged
exception to the Search Warrant requirement under THE
FOURTH AMENDMENT." "WOW, " jiggled
just pretend to be 14, Darby. SANTA continued, "Police
officers violatedMr.Snow's constitutional rights
when they seized a camera-cell phone containing explicit
images." "Judge Cobb's finding, could
create legal precedant and serve as a reference point for
future cases nationwide." [please excuse any typos,
no Spell-Checker-will keep readers posted on further
cases]
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No thanks !!! 4.5.2005
Is it just me or do a lot of people have a problem with saying
"no thanks" ?
<br>
I have been a member of alt now for several yaers and have
written many well directed messages top people. My profile
is very long and my messages are always directed at the speciffic
person, couple.
<br>
At the end of my message I always ask that if you are not interested
please just send ...
3 Kommentare, 384 Angesehen,
27 Stimmen
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It's the same in vanilla... 28.4.2005
Courtesy and thoughtfulness SHOULD BE something that
everyone practices, no matter what kind of lifestyle they
lead...I will answer each and every message sent to me,
whether or not I think we would be compatible...and yet,
time after time, I get silence from those that feel we're
not compatible...I understand that some people will get
idiots messaging them, and they should be treated ...
0 Kommentare, 140 Angesehen,
10 Stimmen
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what men want 14.4.2005
Men can stop chasing sex and say "no thanks"
but if it falls in their lap...they're all over it.
If a female walks to any guy she'll get sexual favors
3 out of 4 guys wether they're married or not
1 Kommentare, 194 Angesehen,
13 Stimmen
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Me ? 20.3.2005
Usually I get a lot of inappropriate sexual offers because
I look so pretty. Some gays think I'm a boy HO and try
to buy me what a mistake they want a man and would run a soon
as they saw my tits! Not that wouldn't like it I'm
just not who they were thinking I was. Then some
teens try to pick-up on me usually girls who are attracted
by my looks and are under legal age not exactly who I ...
0 Kommentare, 233 Angesehen,
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I'm a bit curious 10.3.2005
hey out there I'm not sure if this is the right place
for this but can anyone tell me why most men on here seem not
to be able to read?
now I'm not a man hater, but as my profile states I'm
looking for a girl here as, don't take offense, but
men are somewhat easier to find in normal everyday life.
but I keep getting hounded by pictures of unatractive mens
privates and it's starting to ...
13 Kommentare, 857 Angesehen,
50 Stimmen
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flakes 11.2.2005
why are there so many dishonest deceitful guys out there?
I am very explicity as to what i give and want from a guy. Im
a bottom tgirl and say so, but they lie about their desires
and only want a BJ. Or they are a half-and-half XDreseer
and look awful with their hairy bodies and terrible clothes.
Im also through replying to non-photo members. all men
are the same - only their ugly faces ...
3 Kommentare, 473 Angesehen,
27 Stimmen
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2005-02-10
SANTA[DATELINE]PolicingVideoVoyeurs! [The FEDS join
the battle against perverts with cameras] JOlene Jang
was enjoying an outdoor festival in Seattle withherboyfriend
when she felt uneasy by a creepy guy standing too close behind
her. He was reaching into her backpack. When she confronted
him, the man started to run away, but Jang's boyfriend
tackled him and held him until police arrived. A pickpocket?
No the man wasn't just a pickpocket he was using a small
digital video camera to take pictures up her skirt. Her
assailant pleaded that he was just taking the pictures
for his own enjoyment. The courts thought different, he
was convicted, began serving 38 days for violation of
the State Voyeurism Law. However;the WashingtonState
Supreme Court, overturned the verdict[Ruling: That
Ms.Jang was out in public when it happened, she had no reasonable
expectation of privacy.] Furious Ms.Jang became an outspoken
activist, and finally the state rewrote the law [The space
under a person's clothes private even in a public place.]
SANTA has found out that currently 44 states have some kind
of statute that makes video voyeurism a crime. A just-passed
Federal Law could help sort out the problem of State's
Laws with vague wording and First Amendment issues. [It
is a crime to secretly photograph anyone onFederal Property
or Military Bases.] Ms.Jang says, "I'm still
wearing skirts, but i make sure that they're on the
longer side." [SANTA says"Excuse.typos.no.SpellChecker."]
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SANTA; 2.2.2005
SANTA[UnDeadLine]RALEIGH, NC;I'mDead? SANTA.was.reading.Police-Blotter,
Funeral-Obituaries, and Autopsy Rep- orts for a new "Article"
when he came.across.a.MedlcalExamner's.cause
of death:"UNDEAD!"return to Franklin Regional
MEdical Ctr.Hospital. A mwdical examiner studying a body
in the morgue was taken aback when he saw the man take a short
shallow breath. ...
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