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The information you presented was very informative.My
wife and I are just starting out, even after 27 years together.We
are learning more all the time and look forward to actually
partaking in one of you seminars in the near future. Please
keep the information comming.Everyone will learn something
new. Thank You so much
Good article. Two great pieces of advice were: 1) keep it
simple and 2)I often ask new players, “What do you want to
try? What are you afraid of and yet attracted to? Do you know
your hard limits --what you really do not wish to participate
in, for now?”
Perfect advice for people who are new and may be intimidated
by some of the more hardcore things you can get exposure
to in learning about this lifestyle.
My wife and I have been together for nearly 20 years, and
make no mistake we are having big fun and will until we're
dead. The first half was filled with longing and fumbled
attempts at something undefined and unknown. The last
seven years have been spent researching, talking, buying
some gear, reading aricles, and trying stuff out. Even
through all that we (I)never had an idea about what she was
about. That all came to a head a year ago when we had an arguement
about sex and realized that we have roles that were never
well defined and likes and dislikes that go well beyond
what can be learned by scanning a page full of checked boxes.
Even now that we know a bit more about who we are, I'm
not sure if I'm a top or a dom or if she's a sub or a
bottom. And all of this is with a person I know better than
anyone in the world. After you know what a person really
wants, there's the actual doing part and that can be
hard to learn, and all through trial and error. Add the nuances
of each activity, and this becomes art. Even with the same
person there is so much ground to cover, and idea that this
can take years is not surprising because I'm living
that experience and finding that there is no switch to flip
on or off. Maybe I'm over the top with my assessment
of what we're trying to do, but I don't think so.
It goes back to the same stuff for me. If it were easy, everybody
would be doing it. I'm glad we found a place where there
are others like us.
love your story. i was rased by a mistress at age 12 1/2 and
have been in the life style over 50 years. never realy knowing
the vernila life style.i have 36 testermonial that i may
be the best mentor on any site.i have had had slaves that
knew they were dommes. see it like your stories takes years to know your role. a master has a duty to his slave to protect her take care of
her never hurt her and most of all any fantasy or fetish she ever dreamed of make it come true.
she obey you with love not pain. your story was so real. read
their fetish report and responses. you know. for newbies
do not rush. man are realy shy not females. females i know
men i do not know i am stright my wife lady d is bisexual. with
my love of the life style and as a top fashion designer members
ask if i could do a bdsm web i said yes. it called paddlesleatherandthings
from their i am partners in a mfg large co. this way if a switch can afford bondage goods equiment or
fashion leather. i am paying back the one life style i love. and they are reward
that they can buy it at coust. i started wrighting again
i have add and dyelixa. but your story tome away from any story i have ever read.
that you for wrigfhting it. grand master dee
thank you for this info - the 'fill in the blank'
sentences are very helpful for communicating.