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We did it! I'm now married to Woodenpaddle as well as collared by him!!!! I am still allowed to play with others, but all such requests go through him. If he approves, he sets the rules and limits.
I'm back in the States after spending a year in Arnhem, the Netherlands. While I discovered that I absolutely despise EU Law, I can at least say that my studies were successful. Whether I'll ever have a chance to use what I learned for anything other than making jokes about bendy bananas, curving cucumbers and water that doesn't hydrate...we'll have to wait and see.
I'm sooooo looking forward to returning to the US and my friends and family, but I will miss MisterVanilla. The man gives the greatest hugs ever.
I don't accept blind friend requests and I'm not bothering to respond to them any longer. If you cannot take the time to get to know me, I cannot take the time to say yes, no, or go get bent.
You are about to read a bit about me, and I labeled myself. Regarding labels and "I don't do labels...blah blah blah" I am well aware that labels are subjective. So are the words: Safe and Sane...which is why I don't do SSC but RACK instead. Shall we have that discussion too? Labels are merely a beginning, a place to get an idea. That is my Never to be mistaken for Humble Opinion.
I find it amazing that this needs to be posted, stated, carved backwards on the foreheads of some people and a mirror shoved into their hands????? I am NOT on this site to Get Laid, Have Sex, or just plain Fuck. Seriously. That is just really too easy. I'm a straight, reasonably pretty, intelligent woman living in America. All hail the V. Every woman knows how easy it is to get laid whenever we want. To modify a phrase from Woodenpaddle; I don't go around led by my pussy.
I am on this site for many reasons. Among those many reasons is the opportunity to meet potential friends, some who are Doms some who may be potential partners for me. That is the order it works for me. Friends First. As we get to know one another we evaluate if we are compatible to be more. If you choose to do this, we talk then you talk to Woodenpaddle and he approves (and sets rules) for any meets.
I'm a masochistic submissive. That little test everyone loves says switch and I've tried it, but my experiences switching are limited. I always identified as a submissive well before I had any clue what any of this lovely insanity was all about. I like Topping at times, especially if I'm under the direction of a Dom/Sadist.
For me, everything starts with a quirky sense of humor. Then I live in my mind and I'll try to live in yours. Is your body important? Of course. We use them like playgrounds...but your mind is what will own my soul.
I'm not certain how much I buy into this, but for whatever it's worth:
96% Bondage Receiver
88% Submissive
84% Girl/Boy
84% Switch
76% Primal (Prey)
75% Brat
71% Slave
70% Experimentalist
69% Primal (Predator)
59% Masochist
54% Degradation Receiver
50% Bondage Giver
50% Brat Tamer
46% Dominant
43% Non-monogamist
43% Vanilla
33% Daddy/Mommy
33% Sadist
20% Exhibitionist
16% Master/Mistress
15% Pervert
13% All-Rounder
13% Voyeur
9% Degradation Giver
It is important to note that I have extensive nerve damage to my face resulting to an injury. It's not visible, but it changed the very direction of my life. I spent years living on pain meds and now I am leery of anyone who plays with recreational drugs. I don't care what you choose to do with your body. That's your choice, but I worked hard to free myself and I suffer every day to keep my mind free. Please respect my choices.
For those of you who met Reno, you'll get a chance to see him again, but I'm slowing retiring him and regaining even more independence so he won't always be with me.
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Min Ideal Person:
Just as I wish to be clear about me, I want to be clear about what I seek. I write this politely, and with gentleness, but I mean to be crystal clear. The desire to tie a woman up and spank her does Not make one a Dom. Reading "50 Shades of Grey" does Not make one a Dom nor a Master. Please...Stop right now. Learn, train, or ....label yourself as what you are...a person who desires a bit of spice with your sex and is on this site because you do not want to frighten your prospective dates or you want to explore your sexuality. There is No shame in that, so long as you are honest. It's excellent. It's simply not what I seek in a play partner. It's not what I want in a Dom for an LTR.
The right Dominant sadist will be educated and very intelligent with a great sense of humor, able to deal with my quirkiness. You are patient and understanding; I'm not asking you to be soft, and if you are who I seek, you will understand the difference. You have experience, and you are willing to learn what you do not know. You understand BDSM is about an enhanced synergy between partners. Trust, caring and concern and mutual growth
It is my hope that You will have experience with an array of impact implements, and a willingness to learn techniques...just as I have a willingness and eagerness to learn to serve You and experience in serving society at large. As there is that bit of little girl in me at times,it would be nice if there is a touch of a DaddyDom in you....at least the ability to play with and enjoy that side of me and care for her.
The rest is negotiable...for what is life if not savoring the difference?
WARNING: Sydney University and all other institutions, individuals and/or media using this site or its associated sites for projects or any other use - YOU DO NOT!! have permission from me to use any of my profile or pictures in any form or forum both current and future. If you have or do, it will be considered a violation of my privacy and will be subject to legal action.
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