I am a divorced, pansexual, 58 year-old author and historian, with no . I live and work in Fairfax County, just west of Washington, DC. Physically, I'm 6'3" tall, and of rather brawny build. Think lumberjack, though I hardly spend a lot of time wearing flannel! In fact, I tend to be quite flexible, loving to wear a tux to the theater or a flight suit to do book research. I love to cook and entertain for friends and special guests, and enjoy a wide variety of activities beyond the obvious reasons for my beinghere.
As a Dom, I have been in the lifestyle for 22 years now, and deeply enjoy what it has to offer. Unlike some you may have met from here, Dominance is not a suit of clothes that I take on and off like a sport coat. It is who and what I am, something that I have always been since coming to manhood. My basic demeanor is that of a gentle Dom, with firmness and authority as my desired controls during times together, not false bravado and cruelty. That said, do not underestimate my potential for more substantial and extreme acts and play. I particularly enjoy working with new submissive, including mentoring those who ask for guidance and advice. Of course, I desire that special lady for myself, and I continue to search in the hope of a discovery.
I consider myself a "common sense" Dominant, who enjoys helping new submissives to discover their genuine nature. I realize that this is more than just a "preference" or something that is "fun." It is a serious exploration of your mind and soul. I look forward to acting as your guide....and the trust that goes with such a task. The opportunity to help new submissives discover their true inner selves and desires will always be at the core of my desire in the lifestyle. However, I find myself more often considering the presence of a submissive for a full-time relationship. Something that would provide us both with the openness and honesty to explore our desires, while providing each other with the security and intimacy two people need and desire of each other. Who I am looking for is not so important as what you are in your heart and soul, for it is there that your true nature is kept and held for you alone.
Thought: Dominant is what I am... but only the offer of a caring submissive can turn me into a Master...
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I'm open to the possibilities...
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