I'm a bisexual white male. I've had close to the same number of male lovers as female lovers and find beauty in both genders. If this is a concern for you, either be willing to discuss it or please move on.
I am switch; having been both Dominant and submissive with partners over the 20+ years that I've enjoyed power exchange play. I am not a slave and not looking for a slave. I am not a sadist or a masochist, but I do find some pain play enjoyable as both a Top or a bottom. I am not looking for a 24/7 situation at this moment. If any of this is a concern for you, either be willing to discuss it or please move on.
I am a poly male and I'm married to the most awesome woman in the world. She is bi, switch and the mother to my . She is a poly woman and has her play friends. I am not looking for a threesome at this time, but that possibility may arise under future considerations. I am here looking for one or - at most - two select play partners, FWB, "fuckbuddies", whatever term you desire because over the past several years her sexual drive has gone from a 7 out of 10 to about a 2 and mine, to borrow from Spinal Tap, 'goes to 11'. Que sera, sera. If this is a concern for you...well, you know the rest by now.
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Ma personne idéale :
I'm looking for someone who is accepting of others, who believes that developing a relationship with sex does not mean only exclusivity or marriage, and who can work within the above constraints to form a mutually satisfying journey that we can partake of.
Physically, I find that the brain is THE sexual organ. I'm attracted to someone's intellect more than their appearance and while I have preferences, they are just that...preferences, not absolutes. I am not an Adonis. I do not work out 5 times a week. I value neatness and consideration and am looking for a partner with similar values as mine.
Kink-wise (after all, this IS a personals site), I feel very strongly that sex and bondage (or power exchange) are mutually inclusive. I am not looking for someone solely to administer punishment to, or solely to administer punishment to me. The one goes with the other. I enjoy almost all kinks, with my 'hard limits' being anything that has the potential to cause permanent injury, death or broken bones.
I am also inclined towards partners who are naturally curious. 'What if...' is an endearing quality to me and I do not care if you are a novice or experienced with d/s, bdsm, power exchange, etc. The quality of your character is more important to me.
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