I scratch and bite. On the BDSM side I am a switch. I am in full charge of every facet of my life, and seek release, whether it be top space or sub space, I crave the "now" that BDSM gives me.
And, I am still learning, always learning.
Rope has recently become of interest to me. I absolutely love claws.
Not into drawing blood with claws, but my nails are another story.
I like markings, especially when I am claiming my territory.
I shower at least twice a day and brush my teeth too! If you are going to hang out with me for any duration, you should have good hygiene.
I do vape. Haven't smoked a cigarette in a year.
If you are a switch, be a switch. If you are a dom or sub, just be who you are.
I am very direct and find lying to be quite annoying. I will ask many questions, the first of which being, "Do you have an STD? Do you have HSV?" I don't, so if you have any issues with those questions, trust me, we won't be getting along.
Intelligence is vital. The only thing that will make up for a good education is a superior intellect. I am looking for an equal or better in this arena. I bore easily if my mind is not engaged.
My attention can be intense or shallow. It depends upon my mood and your actions. Chemistry is important. If you have trouble with intensity, I am not your speed. I can be very intense, but like anyone else, it comes in waves.
Many people don't know what the fuck to make of me. I am not in love with you just because I get intense. I am intense, because of me, not you. Get over yourself.
If you are particularly to my palette, the play will drive itself along with the intensity. Period. Don't get it twisted.
While I long to find a lifetime soul mate, I do not pretend to believe that a quest like this would work out. It will be if it is meant to be.
Ultimately, I am looking for a dominant/flexible male, who is in full charge of their own life as well.
Eventually, I want to return to South Florida, where the community is greater and more open, but for now, I am rearing my here, where his father is.
Just because I am bi, does not mean I want to satiate you and your mate's fantasies. I am more into getting to know someone than casual affairs.
And believe it or not, I am an introvert. It doesn't mean that I am not extremely social, it just means that I require sanctuary to recharge my batteries.
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My Ideal Person:
Stable, reliable, self directed, honest, monogamous/monoflexible, good role model and kinky. 😝
UPDATE: Wow! Let me be clear, I am a switch, which means I am fully capable of being dominant. I am not subject to 'ownership' or 'slavery'. In fact, I lean towards the dominant side.
If you tell me you are a dom and then beg me for things, it will turn me off! Please don't beg me. I get plenty of attention on these sites.
Lastly, cock shots are boring. If that is your profile pic, I will assume you are a vanilla looking to get some online kicks and pass you right by. Don't bother messaging me until you get some creativity in your bones.
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