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My life appears vanilla to everyone I know, including my husband. He is a few years older than me and has little time for sex (3-4 times a year), and when he does, it is quick, all for him and beyond vanilla. I tried to get him to explore domestic discipline and BDSM. He can't understand why I like this lifestyle and has no interest. It has been this way for twelve years. I told him that I needed to meet a Dom who can accept my situation. My husband doesn't think that I am serious, and he couldn't be more wrong. This kink/BDSM side of me is my natural side, where I feel most comfortable. This is not an easy way to live. I'm looking for a Dom that has a great sense of humor, but is firm, intense, caring, experienced, and appreciative of all that I give. I am we submissive, but I don't play games or put up with abuse of any kind.
I travel for work and occasionally get hit-on. Thus far I have politely declined. All the men were nice, professionals who were quite tempting. I don't want a one-night-stand, that has never been my style. I would much rather enjoy a long-term, meaningful, intelligent relationship with the right Dom. I fully understand that my relationship status is not appealing, but I felt better about being up-front and honest. There are a lot of married men on this site so please don't be to rash in judgment when a woman posts this.
I have a demanding job, but at home I want to give up control. Most people think I'm outgoing, but I'm a total introvert. I enjoy intelligent conversation with a great sense of humor. I prefer human contact and don't do a lot of social media.
A little bit about me, I'm slender, normal BMI. Nothing plastic on me. I've traveled extensively and enjoy exploring the world. I also want to explore the BDSM community more. I've read significantly more than I probably should have. I've learned about fetishes that were eye-opening and some that were a bit alarming. While I have an adventurous side, I have limits. I think finding out what you don't like is equal to what you do like. I am a bit reserved with this online world because it is so new to me, and I am not fully comfortable meeting people this way.
I've had BDSM desires for many years, but have been a sub with limited experience. I enjoy giving pleasure, focusing all my time on my Dom, getting his approval, and I always obey. For me, I like to kneel in submission, fulfill orders, and be lightly tied-up. I have long blonde hair and enjoy some lite hair pulling when behind me. I love dirty talk, for lack of a better phrase. I get off from a heightened sense of sexual arousal, but don't want to fear you, no knives, blood, gun play, fantasy, etc. I respect a strong, in-charge Dom, but not one who is an asshole. I'm straight, but find it odd that girl-on-girl porn turns me on. Maybe I'm a bit bi-curious. I accept punishments when I miss following a rule. I always insist on a safe word. I'm sexually expressive when intimate, you'll know if i'm enjoying things. I found that it's okay to laugh if things didn't go quite as planned. A great sense of humor goes a long way.
I don't have any tattoos or piercings, and plan to stay that way. Though I don't have tattoos, I like it when a guy has a few (prison tats excluded ;) I'm not into drugs at all, never touched them, never will. Not into needles, as I can barely tolerate a flu shot. You're not going to pee or shit on me, gross and messy. I won't drink pee either, I expect that you are house broken. No branding, I get enough burn marks when I bake. No biting, no permanent marks.
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