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[B]Real life Dom looking for real life sub. No fakes 24/7 ok but not necessary. I am the Dom, you are the sub. I own, your owned. I say, you do. I am to be pleased, you please. Why is this? You are a sub, I am the Dom. You will accept the role as a bottom. Who's your Daddy?What is your pain or pleasure? I Am D & D FREE [/B]I have been an Alpha for a while now and believe it is time for an update... My schedule is hectic and my free-time can be limited and sporadic...That being said, I do try to respond to emails in a timely manner... I am interested in finding a sub from anywhere ... she should be aware of her desires and be able to communicate them well...I find great value in their intelligence as well as their willingness to serve...I work in Government and take great pride in accomplishments in the Vanilla world...My commitment is this. As the Dominant to My submissive, I know that she gives herself to Me in mind, body, soul, and spirit and does so of her own volition. In Me, she has placed confidence, reliance, faith, hope, and dependence.
I will endeavor to ensure My submissive's needs and desires are learned, and her limits are respected at all times. I understand that the gift of submission is priceless and will cherish it always.
Through My actions I will demonstrate that I am in complete control of Myself, thus allowing Me to impress upon My submissive the need to relinquish any control she may subconsciously retain in order to facilitate O/our erotic power exchange.
I accept responsibility for all aspects of My submissive's life, ensuring that each decision I make in her regard is the best for her body, spirit and soul. Never will I place My submissive in jeopardy, nor will I compromise the trust she has placed in Me.
In order to bring My submissive to new heights and understanding, I will work to achieve a vast knowledge of all aspects of the lifestyle, thus allowing Me to be the teacher that she so richly deserves.
I will honor, defend and guard My submissive at all times showing that My love for her will provide a safe harbor in times of adversity. My Dominant self is rooted both in reality and in fantasy, yet I can easily differentiate the two, never allowing the fantasy world to overtake that of the real world.
In times of distress and hardship, I will shed the role of Dominant and provide for My submissive, a supportive partner and confidante.
While often unrelenting and strict, bringing My submissive to tears, I will always kiss away the tears that are shed showing My submissive that while stern, My heart belongs only to her.
I vow never to lift a hand to My submissive in anger. When punishment is needed, it shall always be delivered with a tender discerning hand and for a valid reason.
I pledge to My submissive, patience and understanding, tolerance and steadfastness allowing U/us to grow and nurture the bond W/we have established so that it may withstand the test of time.
Above all else, I wear the title of Dominant Alpha with great honor and pride always. Under My hand your lessons are taught, your heart soars, tears brushed aside, your body blooms and soul deepens, your mind grows and submission and serenity thrives. Under My hand the woman and submissive uncovered.
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我的理想對象:
I've been in the BDSM community for over two decades. I've had long-term relationships as a dominant. In order to give you some idea of the type of things a dominant might look for, I'll give you a list of things that I look for. This is my list and I'm absolutely not speaking for anyone else.
Communication Skills
Everything in a BDSM relationship starts and grows with communication.
Once we get going, communication is paramount. I have the submissive keep a diary that she shares with me. I need to know how the submissive is doing, what is working and what isn't, and most importantly, I want to know that my partner is getting what she needs out of the relationship. Without good communication skills, none of that is possible. If I can't get a submissive to effectively share her thoughts and experiences then we are not a good match.
Intelligence
As an adjunct to effective communication skills, I really appreciate a submissive who is intelligent. There's a lot of time that I'm going to be spending with a submissive and I prefer to be around intelligent people. I don't want a doormat submissive. I'm looking for someone who complements me and my endeavors (while I support and guide her own). Having an intelligent submissive is a great asset.
Seriousness
There are varying degrees of kinkiness from spanking your partner's ass on the weekend, to full-blown 24/7 servitude. There's absolutely nothing wrong with just wanting to play occasionally, or adding kink to spice things up but I'm looking for someone who is more sincere about a BDSM relationship. I know that family, work and obligations have to come first. I need someone who wants to be in her role too.
Loyalty
I'm very 21st century when it comes to what I do in the bedroom, but I can be old-fashioned when it comes to a relationship. I want the same loyalty from her that I offer to her. I want a monogamous relationship. If you want a poly household with Me that's cool.
Exhibitionism
This is less of a requirement and more of a bonus for me. I really like a woman who has an exhibitionist streak. It just goes along well with my style of domination and my own personal preferences. If a submissive likes to be the center of attention, then that's wonderful but I will be the judge of that.
Outgoing
You'd never know it if you met me, but I'm not terribly outgoing. I really like to be quiet and observe what's going on around me. A woman who is outgoing is a great match for me because I attend art shows, events, conventions and parties, and I'd much rather let her carry the conversation. This is another quality that is a real asset for me. It helps to create a true power-couple.
Open-Minded
A submissive who is willing to try new things and expand her experiences and work on her limits is a great find. Some people just want to do the same thing over and over again, but that gets boring quickly. A partner who is open-minded will always be challenging and exciting. We can learn new things together and both grow from the experience. You will also being taught.
Masochism
Most of the submissives I've been in a relationship with enjoy some pain. Some of them are exceptionally masochistic. When I play, it sure is fun to find someone who enjoys it so much.
Everything I Look for in a Partner
Since what I'm looking for is a partner, I'm going to be looking for a woman who matches all the other things that the rest of the world searches for when dating. Things like mutual chemistry, location, sense of humor and a forgiveness of my deep passion for geeky stuff are all things that are important.
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